Is life always smooth and in control??For U that is or do u ever feel regected and out of control??

Question

Some times I look for a best solution to life so that problems go away for ever. I guess Im just wasting my time since there probably is no best answer or solution that is applicable everywhere.

Answer 1

Rejected and out of control??? Alot of us have been there. It is when you feel like your life is out of control and out of your hands. You can get overwhelmed and freak out. Or get in the bed and close the curtains and never come out. We have all been there. No, life is always not smooth....God didn't mean for it to be that way...unfortunatelyl. I get on that rejected kick alot.
I feel like everyone is against me or doesn't really love me. I feel like my kids treat me with disrespect and don't appreciate me. I feel like my opinions don't matter to anyone and that I am not worth loving. Yep, other people feel rejection. And it is hard. Very. I try to look at all the good things in my life when I start getting negative like this. I write down my blessings and the nice things that I have. I write down what I am grateful for. Take a self esteem class...I need to...I have never been taught to think positively....that is my problem. My parents were always judgemental and controlling and negative....so I inherited that attitude. And just when I think my life takes a turn, BAM--somebody or something feels like rejection again. My dad was an alcoholic and sexually abused me so my self esteem is a big issue with me. I suggest you try counseling or church or both.
Love ya, and be strong! I'll pray for you..and me :)

Answer 2

Because I have felt as you do in the past(and sometimes in recent times) the following was sent to me several years ago. It still helps me and may help you too:
Things That Will Help Make You Feel Good! Think about them one at a time before going on to the next one. It does make you feel good, especially the thought at the end #45.
1. Falling in love.
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts.
3. A hot shower.
4. No lines at the supermarket.
5. A special glance.
6. Getting a card or letter in the mail
7. Taking a drive on a pretty road.
8. Hearing your favorite song on the radio.!
9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
10. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer.
11. Chocolate milkshake (vanilla or strawberry).
12. A bubble bath.
13. Giggling
14. A good conversation.
15. The beach
16. Finding a 20 dollar bill in your coat from last winter.
17. Laughing at yourself.
18. Looking into someones eyes and knowing that they Love you
19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours.
20. Running through sprinklers.
21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.
22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful.
23. Laughing at an inside joke
24. Friends.
25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep.
27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner).
28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
29 Playing with a new puppy or kitten.
30. Having someone play with your hair.
31. Sweet dreams.
32. Hot chocolate.
33. Road trips with friends.
34. Swinging on swings.
35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger.
36. Making chocolate chip cookies.
37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies.
38. Holding hands with someone you care about.
39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change.
40 Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much desired present from you.
41. Watching the sunrise.
42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day.
43. Knowing that somebody misses you.
44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply.
45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think.

Answer 3

Hey , have you heard the term "swings and roundabouts" . sometimes you are up and other times you are down. It all depends on your attitude to life and others around you (i.e extrovert or introvert) , we cannot all be the same. I have suffered some appauling things at work and have been 'side-lined' , but so what. Take your time to review things and don't have any 'knee-jerk' reactions , if you have someone you can really trust , I mean really trust , ask to have a chat in secret , they might have an answer that you would never have thought of. If you can help it , don't 'bottle' it all up. Never go it alone , cos you will always get the same answers time and time again. Assess the situation , take a deep breath , if you have to speak your mind , so be it. I don't have a competitve nature and never 'ran with the gang' (so to speak) and I find it hard being heard.

Answer 4

Life is never always smooth and in control, even for folks that have everything pulled together. Life itself is full of alot of ups and downs. There is always one problem after another. The deal is, to take a deep breath and only solve one problem at a time. If you try to solve all your problems at once, you will be spread to thin. When things come up think about the worst that can happen and the best thing that can happen and get on it.

Answer 5

Life is never going to be simple, easy and always smooth and in control for anyone. However, out of control is not a good place to be, one must learn to roll with the punches and take each task at hand. Do your best and be done with it. You can only do what you can do and doing your best should be accepted as enough. I think if life were easy every day and everything ran smooth we would become lazy and complacent. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 6

Life is occasionally smooth. But usually we go from one problem to the next, it is called living. This is probably the best answer you will get.

Answer 7

Remember heart charts when the line is flat you are dead. Thats simply just like life and human nature.Life can't be in control all the time, all we try to do is to raise its quality. And challenges are needed to give us the success feeling, we are capable feeling.

Answer 8

I feel rejected w/e I use up all my options to ask or answer questions on this site.