we were in love 6 years ago, he used not to confess his love, but i always felt it, and was sure of it, we broke up some times, but we were soon back together again, after 4 years , i had a proposal from another guy, i called the one i love and told him about the bad situation i was in. he told me that he has to think about it, and decied weather we can be married or not. i waited him for about two days, finally he answers by an e-mail telling me to go on alone in my lofe , never to wait for him. i actually got engaged with that guy, but we were totally different , so we break up. after that i felt great missing for my true old love , so i called him and begged him to be anything even as friends, and he agreed. i just want to know, do u really think if he is in love with me or not, putting in consideration that he is finansially able to get married now
2006-10-16 02:52:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So let me get these facts right
You were deceiving your boy friend and now ex-fiance by pining over a lost love that won't make a commitment to you, tells you to go away and emotionally strings you along. Right?
You need help. Honestly- not being mean- The past IS the past and you need to erase the "Childhood fairytale" love story out of your mind and move on with life. This is NOT the love of your life... you can't see that now, yet later you will. Have some self respect. Do not contact him again and get on with your life and release any thoughts, stuff or memories of that "old love" that will never-never be a reality again.
Mean? Sorry- I have seen too many wise woman get their head caught in their butt over "love" and really its not that at all. Its FEAR of the unknown You need to focus on your "life" goals, not the "love" goals and you will find it very soon.
Wonder how I know? You would have never offered this much information and asked so many questions. IN your heart, you know it is time to move on and you needed some support to make that choice. Best wishes. LIfe does go on- believe me.
2006-10-16 03:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You laid it out there for him and he told you to go marry someone else. No he does not love you in that way. You may think he's your great love, but honestly you are not his or he would have stopped you from getting engaged in the first place. Stop romancing the situation, get real with yourself, and learn to move on.
2006-10-16 02:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by artist2213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like no! If he did he wouldnt have needed two days to decide and let you get engaged to another man. It would have tore him up inside. If you think $ made him decide I think your wrong. Love dont cost a thing honey!!
He pobably does love you just not the way you want him to.
2006-10-16 02:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the answer to that well you must have been blindly jumping into everyting. You know him best, cut the drama out of your life and concentrate on paying attention.
2006-10-16 02:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello darling, you can´t be serious this is not a problem, if he love´s you then why did he say that you should never wait for him, because if somebody love´s you than he never let you to engage another boy, so my answer is he don´t love you he just use you for fun, so please be strong and find somebody else to fall in love whit.
2006-10-16 03:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to not believe there was true love,,, now I know love is real,, I think that you should take you rguy out to eat and talk to him about that,,
2006-10-16 03:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst human beings quite love you, they opt for the final for you. i think of that's extremely obvious. this is an exciting tale that got here approximately to a chum of mine who found out this lesson. She had divorced her husband and years later met an extremely astonishing government who got here approximately to stay around the rustic from her. They became engaged. He taken care of her okay and made optimistic to bypass to her fatherland in lots of cases. Her mom exceeded directly to the finished beyond, and her fiance did not fly in for the funeral. He stated he become very busy at artwork, yet he was hoping her close acquaintances ought to convenience her. on the viewing, her ex-husband confirmed up. the two considered one of them hadn't been in plenty touch, and he or she become engaged now. Her ex-husband quietly stayed interior the funeral abode the finished time. She stored thanking him and become very humbled. He instructed her he quite cared approximately her mom and in spite of each little thing, she become like a mom to him and become a grandmother to their toddlers. It become a private funeral so there have been not too many human beings there. He went to the cemetery additionally for the burial provider. She went abode along with her toddlers and did not pay attention from her fiance till the next day. He stated "How did issues bypass. Wait, carry a minute..." She slowly hung up on him, and at last broke the engagement. He had no compelling reason to not attend the funeral, yet he did not love her adequate to chop up from his community "responsibilities" and fly to be by utilising her ingredient. After her mom's funeral, she spent quite a exceptional form of on my own time, questioning approximately her ex-husband and remembering how attentive he become whilst her mom become alive, no count if or not they have been married or divorced. And he stayed along with her on the scientific institution additionally whilst she become death. They ended up remarrying. this would not ensue to anybody, yet genuine love isn't in basic terms what you assert, it quite is what you do, and it quite is putting your mate in the past your self. they could desire to be the main serious guy or woman interior the international to you.
2016-11-23 14:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a right twit who is not sure what he wants himself. move on and forget about him
2006-10-16 02:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who loves you shows you respect and gives you support and above all puts your needs before their own
2006-10-16 02:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is up to him to decide and unveil for now.just carry on with the level you requested for when you begged him.
2006-10-16 02:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋