He's from another country and I asked him the meaning of a word I had heard in his native language. He got a strange look on his face and asked where did I hear that word from? Who told me that word? Now he thinks I'm cheating on him and I'm not!! I heard that word one time and just remembered it without knowing the meaning of it. The word I found out means "stick it to me."
2006-10-16 01:36:37 · 21 answers · asked by jonda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, sounds like he is totally over-reacting, you could have heard it anywhere, I know loads of random words in other languages. Are you sure you want to be with a guy who jumps to such ridiculous conclusions? Sounds like he lacks trust and respect for you.
2006-10-16 01:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! I can see his concern, but he needs to chill out...other languages are a tough thing when your learning by hearing instead of classes. I'm sure you have asked him alot before, and will ask more in the future...and how could you use that word before then, if you didn't know what it meant?...and if you DID know and WERE fooling around, would you be stupid enough to ask him what it meant? He needs to look at these factors and just chill out.
2006-10-16 08:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bothering with him? This guy sounds MAJORLY insecure, and unless you think repairing messed up people is the only value you bring to relationships, you should realise there is better than walking on egg-shells because of one word said. I would ignore his silly toddler temper this once. If it continues or happens again I would sit down and soberly tell him that this will not be tolerated.
2006-10-16 08:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to get a life and calm down about this. It's just a word, and it's not even a bad word at that. He sounds insecure to me. You need to just ignore him, and go about your daily routines. He's overreacting and there is no cause for it. Ignore him.
2006-10-16 08:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol honey you need to tell him that u are just asking what it meant and that you heard it from someone else...just tell him that u are just wondering about his language and u heard the word and was just curious about what it meant...it's not ur fault just talk with him get him to better understand...he's from somewhere else he might not understand u much less u understand him..just explain to him where u heard it from and that u were just wonderin bc it's so not ur language but just settle down and explain it to him...it should be fine...he's from another country he needs to understand u as well...k good luck
2006-10-16 08:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that insecure over 1 word then you don't need to be with him. If he gets so upset over something said in his language that you didnt understand then he has issues.
you need to explain to him that you wanted to know what the word meant and nothing else.
2006-10-16 08:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus play it cool. Once he realizes that its not that big a deal he'll appreciate you staying calm. But, i encourage you to look elsewhere. He sounds really insecure... dont waste your time with him if he blows it out of the water.
2006-10-16 08:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm guys are like that do not worry just ignore for sometime then b nice again thats all ok:)
2006-10-16 08:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is just a word and not a bad one, so i don't know what is wrong with him!!!!!
2006-10-16 08:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to calm the hell down. You're not going to tolerate his stupid behavior.
2006-10-16 08:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋