because, friend tease her for been overweight and there see herself as ugly.
2006-10-16 01:28:41 · 24 answers · asked by sarah t 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
be there for her and let her know she's not alone in school i was the fat girl who got teasted and i ended up making out better than any of the pretty girls i met a wonderful gorgeous man and got married and have been happy with him for 25 years if you look around its usually us fat ugly chicks that end up with the best the world has to offer he's a good husband , father and the love of my life I've had a heart problem for 3 years now and i catch him watching over me at night worried something going to happen when I've been at my sickest he don't leave my side and as far as I'm concern I'm still that fat ugly chick but somehow he makes me feel like I'm the most beautiful woman in the the world tell her to look around out side of school how many times have you heard someone say ehhh whats he doing with her well the answer is he see the beauty even she don't see. And let her read this and those are not friends if they are teasing her.
2006-10-16 01:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by lavendermist37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait! Tell someone who can help you. Take this very seriously! Sounds like your friend has low self esteem and the teasing doesn't help.
Anyone who threatens suicide needs medical attention ASAP! If you are in school, tell a counselor. If not tell her parents or someone who is responsible for her. If these suggestions don't fit, call the police. Your friend may be angry with you at first, but when she is better, she will thank you for saving her life!
Reassure your friend that she is a beautiful person. She is very lucky to have you as a friend.
2006-10-16 02:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ron's wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her she is what she is if overweight she could try to lose some if she wanted to but only if she wants to not because of what others are saying,as for her being ugly beauty so they say is only skin deep its whats on the inside that counts,its those people who are calling her names and running her down that are ugly plain and just bullies tell her to tell someone how she feels and to get some help she is worth a lot more than her so called friends.tell her not to do it they are not worth it and killing yourself is final there's no way back wen u do something like that
2006-10-16 01:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must go to the police if you love her and even if you barely know someone, you must go to the authorities IMMEDIATELY -- she is in SERIOUS TROUBLE & is CRYING OUT TO BE HELPED -- that's why she failed -- she SECRETLY WANTS HELP !!!! You must do this in all cases, with the only possible exception being someone who is in constant agony and has thought this out clearly and there is no other way to end the suffering -- but this is a serious decision too, but incases of physical pain & disease -- it is up to the patient and the doctor.
But someone who is in emotional pain can be helped and can be saved & esp. since she failed, she doesnt really want to die !!! She just wants help, even tho probably wont admit it. But by all means, go anonymously to police if you feel you mustn't let her know it was you, but you must report it -- her life is at stake !!!! And the police will stop her and get her help, as suicide is against the law! NOW HURRY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 01:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 her, cos i know how it feels 2 be iv bee in the same position as u. U have 2 talk 2 her, thats the only way! tell her that she is beautifull and that killing herself is not gonna prove anything, cos thats just letting those horrible people win! tell her that shes ur best friend and that u love her and always whant her 2 be here! tell her its not the way out of this situiation. good luck!
2006-10-16 01:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by rhian_star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her out for walks in the countryside. I know this sounds simplistic and may not work for everyone, but exercise {out in the open air not in a gym} is wonderful for lifting the spirits, and I speak from experience. It also has the wonderful side effect of helping you to lose weight. Good luck.
2006-10-16 01:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by serendipity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out somewhere fun to cheer her up. Remind her all she has to live for and be there for her any time of day. Try to help her fight back at the bullies. Pay her compliments say she's gorgeous. Anything! Get her to call a suicide support line.
2006-10-16 04:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by katem1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get on with it - Run her a bath, tell her to get in and pass her a toaster to drop in the water...
Seriously - all this attention seeking crap if she'd really wanted to have done it she would have done already.
We all have problems, Welcome to the 'Unfair' World, She needs to get a grip of herself while she's young enough.
The real Suicide Victims are the ones who do it rather than talk about doing it. Tell her to stop being a selfish little pig and think about all the dying people who really want to live but can't...
2006-10-16 01:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it fairly is obvious that your dealing with a no longer uncomplicated time on the 2d, your chum is attempting to charm to interest to her self because of the fact she is up set. however the final element to do is do no longer save telling her to no longer reason some human beings will in no way harm them selves yet say they'll for the attention. in case you comprehend her mothers and dads nicely sufficient then confer with them yet whilst no longer tell the two your parent/s, a have faith worth instructor or a school nurse.
2016-12-13 09:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend as much time as possible with her.
Use your female instinct to try and show her that
life is worthwhile, and give her reasons of her
importance to all of us. You will be rewarded by
destiny for your success and even for your attempt.
I wish you the all the best.
2006-10-16 01:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋