i've gottin advice from people on here before but somehow nothing works.....its still my step-dad but now my mom and my real dad keep puttin s**t on me....all the time....like everyone who has answerd me before i am bout to turn 18.....and i am honestly thinkin about moving out and sayin to hell with em all and never talk again.....i've takin ppls advice on here but none of it wokrs...i trued to talk to them without yellin....didn't work.....i've just walked away and left the house for a few hours....got b**ched out when i got home...everything i am doin isn't working.....any other advice
2006-10-16 01:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by my name is jimmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leaving home may be a good idea if you can afford to do that. It will put physical space between you and get rid of a lot of tension. You may find that when you see them you will all get on a lot better.
If you do leave, really try not to do it on bad terms...this is so important. Just tell them that you'd like to move out and experience some independence.
If you leave on bad terms it will make seeing them again so much more difficult.
2006-10-16 05:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are stupid, we don't see what we are doing to our children. Iam divorced and until my son told me how the fighting and bad mouthing of his dad and i was affection him, i was blind. Sounds like your step dad has some real issues, and really wants to be in charge of something. I would try talking to all of them once again and if they don't listen do move out. Once you do let them know game over. You are no longer under their roof and set the rules. Make it clear what you expect from them and if they cannot respect the change stay away. Its hard on you, but you are a man now and they are the ones that have to grow up and realize that. And at 17 you can leave, just make sure you are able to take care of yourself without them. Good luck and sorry us parents are so stupid in how to relate with our kids.
2006-10-16 08:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. bud time to do some serious inventory. 1st, you are all going thru a stage,you are trying to be independent, they want you to be what they want to be- this is really quite normal.so it looks like you need to fiqure out just what they expect from you.a lot of parents, for some odd reason think that they can yell at you & you`re gonna see the light, they cannot face you`re about grown. i`m sure you`re at the stage where you think that they`re dummer than mud.time to grow up.try to stay calm-if they said something totally stupid-calmy repeat it & see what they say .if they don`t back down, calmly go set down , watch t.v. repeat to yourself *this is only a mind game*. always try to speak calmly- you are the only one who can control you.when you give into fights , it shows you are not in control, people hate to be ignored worse than anything.& leaving will just give them more fuel.kill em with kindness.
2006-10-16 09:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok do they have a good reason to argue at you I mean are you seriously doing some thing wrong? If not then move out that is there place! If you are doing some thing wrong then stop!!
2006-10-16 08:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Isis Dior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have three adults apparently telling you that you are screwing up, could it be possible that you are? Its their house and they have the right to set the rules. Do what you are told and I bet things calm right down.
2006-10-16 08:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not stating what the problem is. sounds like you are having growing pains and dont want to be accountable for your answers. you have to give us some particulars. good luck!
2006-10-16 09:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really aren't stating what the problem is so it is kind of hard to help or to give advice....but from what little you did say it just sounds to me like they are trying to get you to grow up and you are resenting it......
2006-10-16 08:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋