like when your cheated on should you keep giving that person another chance because of how long you have been together or doesn't that matter.
2006-10-16 01:27:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If someone cheats on you once... it is up to you whether to forgive and continue the relationship... if someone cheats on you twice you really owe it to yourself to get out of it.... regardless of how long you've been together.
time spent in a relationship doesn't allow for "special privileges" such as cheating or give special permission to hurt you... and people like that will continue to take advantage if you let them once, twice.. why not a third, fourth, etc... nobody deserves that.
2006-10-16 01:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general I would say that if someone cheats on you after 10 years of marriage you probably want to show them grace..Cause you've built up a life together and maybe children are involved.
Look at the circumstances! If they cheat just cause they're bored or spoiled or like to play, the only way you can possibly make them stop is by closing them off.
It's like dogs actually; they will only respect someone they know will not accept bad behavior. Be strict and they might respect you, but that type of relationship might not be what you want after all. Hope you find a good solution.
2006-10-16 08:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation... if a woman just kissed another guy, i could forget about, as long as it didn't become a regular thing, and she was the one to come and tell me about it honestly. but if she did anything more than that, like slept with this guy, or if it was an ongoing thing, or if i had to find out about it on my own, she would be gone in a second. but really it's hard to say. if you really care about someone, and she cares about you, that's hard to do. but don't abuse yourself like that. if you give this person too many chances, you will learn to never trust anyone again, and that will hurt you in future relationships.
2006-10-16 08:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the couple and just exactly what you mean by cheating. It would take only once for me because I would never trust them again. It would get in the way of a healthy relationship.
2006-10-16 08:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Stand 4 somthing Please! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter how many times you've been cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-16 08:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat is not a good thing, so i think you shouldn't wait to be cheat on in the contrary you have to pamper your partner and show them that you care about it and if is already late forget him because he will do it again, as is a nature of the men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 08:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone deserves a second chance in everything simply because we are all human and all make mistakes. A third chance is not an option.
2006-10-16 08:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me...only once. I don't have time to waste on someone who would do that to me. And allowing that person to keep on doing that to you because "this will be the last time" or " he really loves ME" is only enabling the other person to keep hurting you and get away with it.
2006-10-16 08:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep once a cheater always a cheater, give them a secod chance and thats it, all is fair in love and war. They dont get any more chances
2006-10-16 08:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty..its up to you to answer that question. How badly do you want it to work? How many times will you allow yourself to be hurt? Remember this quote "cheat on me once shame on you, cheat on me twice shame on me"
2006-10-16 10:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by RANDI B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋