2006-10-16 01:11:51 · 20 answers · asked by AnGeL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because of all the horrible things do to people they claim to love. True love is rare, peole use the words too easily today, they love chocolate, they love their bf that they have been with for a week. Its hard to believe something exists that you can't see & havne't felt. I hope you fall in love one day & change your mind.
2006-10-16 01:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your past relationships. You may have had trust issues with men that have hurt you in the past and let you down. You have had a clear vision of how love was supposed to be in your mind, and over time you have been let down over and over again, and you have come to a conclusion that it can't be real because love hurts too much. Sweetie, let me tell you something. My boyfriend of nearly 5 years thought this way all the way up until he was 27 years of age. He's now 32. When I met him he didn't believe in love. He never told me until a year later, but he absolutely believed it wasn't real until he met me. When he met me everything he said went out the window and flew away forever. The reason he thinks so differently now is because he strongly believes he found his soul mate and his perfect match which is me. I feel the same exact way about him. He's like no other man I have ever been with and the feeling for both of us is wonderful and hasn't changed a bit. When you meet the right man that's your match and soul mate, you will be singing a different tune. Love is very real, and it will prove you wrong like it has for so many people. Some people meet their match later in life some don't. Either way there is someone out here that is designed perfectly for you. Don't give up hope yet.
2006-10-16 08:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is possible for anyone 2 not believe in love. maybe its just a phase that your going through. or may b you have had a major dissapointment in your love life. but there comes a point in everyone's life where they feel like that. its normal.
2006-10-16 08:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Andre R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont believe in love because you havent found that one that swept you off your feet yet, you havent felt it yet or experienced it. but then you might be to scared to fall in love. maybe you seen your friends or and family members get hurt in an love relationship that you dont want to go through that stress and pain.but its the way of life and believe you me you will fall in love and then you will experience pain.....so dont say you dont believe in love just yet because you dont know what love is...
2006-10-16 08:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes time it is not an instant thing that is infatuation but love comes after a period of time of being with and or around someone and learning their likes and dislikes and their feelings and comforts
2006-10-16 08:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by kustomflames@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have never been in love or have been loved..maybe you just havent found the right person yet.When you do meet that "special someone"you will feel very much in love..believe me!
2006-10-16 08:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, many ppl dont believe in it anymore.....but it has a way of sneaking up on you and making you believe sometimes.
when you meet the right guy...you will fell different. good luck....
2006-10-16 08:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cause you have been hurt in the past or possibly you didn't see it as a child growing up.Trust me I sometimes really ? it myself cause they say love doesn't hurt & well I've done my fair share of crying.
2006-10-16 08:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone you might of cared about had cause you great pain somewhere in life. but, maybe you just have not figured out what it would take to feel love.
2006-10-16 08:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your ex boyfriends have always broken ur heart so u never expeirenced love for your self!!
2006-10-16 08:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋