Okay, me and my bf are having a baby, NOT PLANNED. I was on bc and all that, but i got pregnant. And ever since i have got pregnant i have been emotional and i cry at the drop of a hat. well he seems to think i should be stronger and suck it up. it seems he just pushes my feelings aside. and it hurts ya know. I love him and i know he loves me, but DO I need to get stronger, or is the pregnancy messing with my emotions? because things i normally wouldnt cry about, i cry about. Confused.....
2006-10-16 00:48:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Remember when you first started your period and your hormones were crazy and you cried a lot? Same thing is going on now. Your hormones are doing all sorts of things they don't normally do when you aren't pregnant. That's why you're crying. You are also probably feeling some stress and maybe some depression because of an unplanned pregnancy and having your boyfriend telling you to suck it up isn't helping. I remember crying when I started my period, crying when I was pregnant and now I'm in peri-menopause and I cry, cry, cry.....My husband calls me his weepy wife. (-:
It's just part of the pregnancy package. This too shall pass. If you feel depressed after your baby arrives, be sure and talk to your doctor. You could have post partum depression and they can help you with that. You should talk to your doctor about what is going on now too. I'm sure there's help available and I would love for you to be able to enjoy your pregnancy and your baby when he or she arrives. Good luck, sweetie.
2006-10-16 01:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the hormones. Tell him to suck it up, you can't help it right now. I would cry on weed be gone commercials when I was pregnant. I cried once cause I thought a bug touched me and it was my husband. It's normal, you're normal. Once your hormones get back to normal after the baby you will be fine.
2006-10-16 09:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~frankie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing. I was crying when my water broke. lol. If it's too much to handle, do see a doctor. But congratulations. The pregnancy may not have been planned but the joy of the baby will be unmatched. :)
2006-10-16 08:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ Insane_Princess ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy does make ones hormones go through the roof hun! Its completely understandable. I went onto anti dpressants when I was pregnant - I dont know if youre depressed?
They were completely safe, low dosage and helped me like you cant believe. Maybe you could have a chat to your Dr and see if he/she can suggest anything x
2006-10-16 09:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Chez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay we all wake up someday's and bawl our eyes out its j ust your hormones...when you get to go tothe dr id ask about your crying and everything im sure he wont give you anything for it but itll help to make you feel like your not crazy goodluck and congratulations on the baby!!!
2006-10-16 07:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so totally normal....he's just not being very understanding. Lucky for me....my husband was...but, then again he had no choice...lol. Your hormones are all whacked out and you are probably a little stressed out too. Don't worry your fine....he just needs to get strong and suck it up!
2006-10-16 11:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Princess T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a combination of being hormonal and too young.When i got pregnant at 18,i was a wreck!After telling my bf to take a hike,it wasn't until a yr. later that we got back together.
2006-10-16 08:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by fluffer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the beautiful world of pregnancy and hormones. Yes this is completely normal. Your preggers... you will be emotional, aggitated, happy, sad, and angry ~ possibly all in the same day. LOL.
Anyway tell your man to chillax and that when he decides to carry the baby he can gripe, moan, or suck up his feelings. Till then... tell him to zip it!!
2006-10-16 09:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by tamaya_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, stress less...........YES the pregnacy is screwing with ur emotions.....well really ur homones (but that's beside the piont) u need to tell ur b/f to get in the real world cause when a woman is pregnate this happens....he is the one that needs to deal with it:) it will pass genrally when the baby is born:P
2006-10-16 07:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by elza_12001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your hormones, talk to a psychiatrist if you need someone to listen to you. Congratulations too, hope the baby brings you guys bundles of joy.
2006-10-16 07:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by xChicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋