I mean children aged like 5 and up! At this age there like small adults and should be treated and told things about life, instead of sheltered from it!
Im talking about the way adults talk to children, sometimes its just really nasty!
I saw this mother the day, and her words were to her kid, Oh will u shut up Katey, stop bein so stupid, why did I have to have such a stupid child
Thats nasty, if ur that mother n u read this u should be ashamed of urself
2006-10-16 00:40:30 · 13 answers · asked by zorroorojo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I detest people who speak to children like that, do they not realise that by calling their children stupid they are taking the confidence out of them and giving them hang ups about themselves, what your taught and told as a child goes with you into adulthood, how can anyone possibly think a child of 5 knows anything about life, of course they are unknowledgable on most things, its the adults job to teach them not to ridicule them, I so wish those sort of people would just stand back for a few seconds to see what damage they are doing to their children, it is so damn unfair.
2006-10-16 01:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not trained to be parents or that's the way they were raised. I hear some Mothers where i'm from just cuss their kids out like they were grown people. Some are just too young, especially in a low income environment, to know or get proper parenting. That's not an excuse, but a fact. I see it everyday with young mothers no older than 20 with 2 kids already. Then the mother of the girl with the kids may be a mess herself, cussing up a storm. Some do need help, some are just bad parents.
2006-10-16 00:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by D Money 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You contradict yourself. You say the kids are like little adults and shouldn't be sheltered and then you get mad when someone does just that.
Children are just that, children. They are NOT little adults. They need to be taught about the world and how to interact with others. They also need to be sheltered from some of the more horrible things in life for as long as possible to ensure their childlike innocence.
You are correct though, that mother was horrible.
2006-10-16 05:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people should not be allowed to have children as they obviously do not realise the sensitivities of a child they most likely take there frustrations out on a child that they cannot take out on adults,they are pathetic and make me sick!
2006-10-16 01:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the poor child wont answer back i would challenge anyone who speaks to their child in such a way as the child will one day speak to them in the same way and then they will wonder why children are people too and should be treated with respect
2006-10-16 01:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I quite agree with you. For our children to grow up well balanced and useful members of society, they need to be taught self respect, in order to be able to respect others. That mother is sowing the seeds of self-doubt and will kill the child's self-confidence, for if she speaks like that in public, goodness knows what she must say in private. (In fact, it could be seen as abuse). As parents, we need to remember what it was like to be a child and it is true that some are more sensitive than others. It is likely, however, that the child will one day copy the mother and so the behaviour is perpetuated.
2006-10-16 00:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by uknative 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did u ever think of possibly shes recommend because of the fact her mom is abusing her, or that she acts out in a foul attempt to get interest and guidence? undesirable habit is a coaching probability. Telling her that she is a probability to society shouldn't help. Her and her family contributors desires expert help and a good style of love and understand-how. Shes purely a toddler.
2016-10-02 08:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See that is wrong! I would never ever call my child stupid! I do tell my five year old to be quite sometimes cause his mouth runs a mile a minute, but I think it is wrong to call a child stupid or any other name. We are their parents, we should be building our children up, not tearing them down.
2006-10-16 00:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My children are 3 and a half, and nearly 2 and I always speak to them as I would like to be spoken to - by anyone! It's the only way to instill respect into children. If you speak to them badly, they learn to speak badly and so it goes on and on and on...
2006-10-16 00:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they dnt know how to talk to children, supernanny shud pay a visit, however parents like this will get it back 10 fold then they will be on chat shows and they wonder where they have gone wrong
2006-10-16 00:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋