We had the first real tiff in our relationship Sat night. I was mad because she called me about 5 times within an hour of leaving my place after a day of fun together then wouldn't call me back several hours after I had left her a message. Before going to bed I called her, upset, and said that I felt like it was a double standard. Now I haven't talked to her since then despite a couple of messages yesterday. We have been dating for several months and this is the first time she has ever dodged calls from me. How long would you wait before assuming she's not going to call anymore? She is apparently mad, so how much time would you give a 6 mo. relationship before saying it's not worth waiting for? Or am I just over-reacting?
2006-10-16 00:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had left her a message Sat night @ 10:30. She never alled back so I left the message on her phone at @ 2:30 AM. Haven't heard from her since.
2006-10-16 00:47:51 · update #1
I agree. Stop calling her for a few days and see if she calls you. Don't press it. After all, if she walks on a 6 month relationship because of a small fight, then there wasn't much to hold her there in the first place. Good luck.
2006-10-16 00:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i get the question right, she called you about 5 times after she left you, after having a very good day together? if this is right, why would you get upset that she called? i guess it depend on what you said to her that she wouldn't call you back..if you were rude and left a nasty message, then that is why she didn't call you back..she probally got her feelings hurt and doesn't want to get them hurt again..if this is all the fight was about, sounds like you both need to grow up..this isn't really anything to get so worked up about..blessings
2006-10-16 07:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6mos the relationship should have substance.I think yo are over acting she is probably reacting to your action of being mad.Give her at least a day leave a message and apologize for your behavior.
2006-10-16 07:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nai Nai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her for a while and she if she actually calls you back. Overcalling a person makes you seem desprite and look like a pansy. I would wait it out for a week. If there is no call, she has over reacted and you should move on.
2006-10-16 07:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by monkay78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! it aint over, just play it cool and wait 4 her to come crawling back. I think she is testing how far she can push u.
2006-10-16 07:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by mattallica123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume its over and drop her....give her some space to breathe......give her a day or two and then try calling her again......Good luck!!
2006-10-16 07:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd imagine it's over. She's probably had enough of your whining.
2006-10-16 08:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by F&S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's over
2006-10-16 07:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang it up- if she don't call then let it go!
2006-10-16 07:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling her and see what happens.
2006-10-16 07:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋