What does this mean? He also says that he feels that people who give their love easily aren't worth his time. Is he trying to earn me? What should I do? I have only loved one person in my entire lifetime, and that was my ex of 5 years.
What am I supposed to do?
2006-10-15 23:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We both date other people. I do like this guy, but I can't see it going anywhere realistically speaking. He's graduating from college and going back to Newport Beach this semester, whereas I have 2 more years. We are in different steps of life, but similar. We hardly know each other, and we both don't know what we want in life or in relationships. What now?
2006-10-15 23:48:51 · update #1
i don't know much about you guys but i can say that the man you're referring to like you because you don't give in easily, the guy loves to be challenged, after he have what he wants from you he MIGHT left you. but if you really like him and it looks like he's worth it then test him, if he can't wait then he is not worth it, give him all the CHALLENGES he's asking. make it all hard. that's the only way you'll know.
2006-10-15 23:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by birdhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is indeed true that men like a "good chase". If a woman comes to them too easily, they may not value the relationship. It is no difference than paying a woman so she spends time with him. So easy! (Sorry for the comparison - but it's justso you know what I mean when I say "easy".)
Judging from the extra details you have given, I take it that you fancy him enough to be concerned if you're an item...or a couple. If I am in your shoes, I will let things happen naturally but with a slight twist.
Call him when you think of him, to say Hi! Be friends as usual but at the same time keep your distance. How?
If you want to say yes to his date, try this,"I don't think I can meet you this Saturday....hmmm....lt me see...hold on, let me check my organiser...how about 4pm instead of 3pm?" When you say you can't meet him, he will think "Aw! She's not easy to date." But he may heave a sighof relief when you've only changed the time.
You just gave him a shock and then a pat, much like a dog!
Kind of a mind game but it works all the time...unless he already knows what you're trying to do! Needless to say, do not act crazy when you're really crazy for him. Do it when after you're engaged and good luck! I hope he likes you cos he likes you and forget that you are a challenge!
2006-10-16 06:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by MyQute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, a challenge for me is something that must be won... if a person tells you that you are a challenge, i really don't think that's something to be happy about. winning a trophy is also a challenge but after winning it, it's kept somewhere else like in a cabinet or something. the challenge is over.
2006-10-16 06:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He means that he doesn't want a girl who's all about him. He wants a girl who has a life outside of him. And if you do (which I suspect you do), hats off to ya. Smart girl.
2006-10-16 09:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but both of u love each other,just give it a try and see ware it falls.GOODLUCK.
2006-10-16 06:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by damstar2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋