What should i do to get her back . her birthday is just few days. Do u think she would still go out with me.
2006-10-15 23:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by bob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it may be to hear- I would have assumed that that boat has well and truely sailed.
I would suggest a very small and tasteful gift for her birthday, as a friendly overture and a test of the waters. If the reaction is a little warmer- she may just have been shocked at the revelation.
However if she still gives you the cold shoulder- then forget about her. As hard and as harsh as that is and sounds.
Perhaps as I say- the news shocked her. Perhaps there is something in her past that mentally and emotionally prevents her from being with you at this time.
Maybe she needs time to process your advances. Women, my dear boy- are exceedingly complex creatures.
Possibly there is some troubles at home holding her back. Maybe her parents are strict on her going out with guys.
There are any number of reasons.
If however she seems to be ignoring you in a begrudging and especially cold way- then she clearly isn't interested and you should walk away ASAP.
Hope this helps.
The Iceman.
2006-10-15 23:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..the obvious thing to do was move on...but there is a different side to it as well such as maybe she is ignoring you cause she likes you and she is embarrassed? That may seem far fetched but I just did that to a guy cause i was embarrassed and needed time to think things through but that was way more complicated. Really demand an answer but do it in a nice way. Do whatever it takes to get the truth then be sure when you do move on.
2006-10-16 06:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Spastic girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure that she's the girl 4 u? N also, r u sure she's single? Coz perhaps it's bcoz she already has a boy friend or mayb she's in love with someone else. n if she is, I guess it's time 4 u 2 move on...
Note: u could always try giving her a bouquet of roses and a sorry note even though u don't know what u did wrong.
2006-10-16 06:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go nd speak 2her and tell her dat u wanna b her friend if shes not interested in goin out witu. Get her 2 accept it nd get close wit her. on her bday dont give her any big surprise. keep in sweet by givin her sumting she likes and also a card a day b4 her bday ( dont mention bout dating her). Shes sure to thank u nd take the chance 2 talk 2her and get into a coooooool frendship. but u mushave patience nd after a few months ull urself come 2no who she likes. den, de decision is upto u.
dis does workout in such cases at scool.(at leest in mine)
2006-10-16 07:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Pranky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend i could feel your pain, it happen to me as well, its hard to realize but the much you keep telling them the more they ignore and dont care, but don't give up try your best as far as you can or heart desire, love dont have a limit, but dont bring the same case over and over, just show her your feelings by having fun, making her laugh, having a good time together, never tell a girl how much you love them because later they control you, and some of them act they are the big queen of the universe, just play cool..do things that you enjoy...good luck man i hope every thing goes well..just incase that girl keep ignoring you just take a walk away and try to find someone else..
sincerely Eddy AKA CHUCKY
2006-10-16 06:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Eddy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These girls are always like this. They find pleasure in hurting the guys heart. Even I too had a same instance in my life. But I think she has some soft corner for you in her heart. If she is a gem of a girl try for her decently. If not look for the next ones da.
2006-10-16 07:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wont say move on, may b the reason is intense,thrz a little chance,wish her on her birthday,give her present ie:- ask for frndship giving red rose,,ask her if she cud spend little time wid U., so u cud talk to her,ask her out y she denied,watz d reason bhind,If u reallly dont wana lose her,tel her v can b frnds or if this doznt works then 4get her,leave her,,& in future dont regret to lose her coz may b she was not worth it,& for u thr was no feeling.
Best Luck!
2006-10-16 08:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesnt feel the same for you and it made her uncomfortable if you think you could just be her friend feeling the way you do you need to talk to her and tell her that if she doesnt feel the same way about you that you are willing to except that and that you would still like to be friends if she agrees then great but if not you will need to move on and let her go.
2006-10-16 06:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! why can she just ignore you...it's simple spelling she not interested to go more deeper. If she would say like let me think there's hope but dare say nothing I see no hopes. Don't waste ur time she dont deserve it go meet someone who knows she's just around & you don't notice her. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 06:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by hottemper_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to eat for her birthday of course! Play it cool and don't talk about love!
2006-10-16 06:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋