me and my bf meets only twice a month and if we were together we're just spending 3-4 hours together. In that time we made sex for 3-4 times for 3-4 hours that were together. is that normal?
2006-10-15 23:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by krungkrung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that is not normal. If you both love each other then you would want to spend more time together...sounds to me that he is just using you for sex- get rid!
2006-10-15 23:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by crazybex2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.Since you meet twice a month, your hormones are charging together so its normal for both of you to want to have sex whenever you meet. My bf and i see each other once a week, every week of the month and we do have passionate love. Now, its also healthy to have a decent conversation because a relationship is not just about sex but about knowing each other. In life, you can never know too much of someone.
You can still have sex with him but at the same time, create some time to do things together, watch a movie, go dancing, talk, talk, talk, e.t.c. That way, the relationship feels whole and is more balanced. Even if, he calls you on phone, it doesn't compare to speaking one on one.
Also, your bf would love and appreciate you more if you do what i've mentioned.
2006-10-16 06:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omo, i thick is not that ok .why must u guys see each other only just twice in a month and haveing sex every hour u spend together.i belive there other things to do than haveing sex all the time,see it not normal.
2006-10-16 06:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by damstar2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So where is he on the 28days of the month, 12 hours per day?do your calculation here my dear and its definitely not normaly.you guys are having sex once every hour. so when is the time you bond , getting to know each other emotionally.i think you're just a booty call.find yourself another man who values you.
2006-10-16 06:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either you two just LOVE sex, or he just wants sex! Try not having sex next time you see him and see what he does. If he wants more than that he shouldn't be understanding. But if your happy with what you two are doing, and not going further then carry on! Good luck!
2006-10-16 06:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Normal. Whatever.
2006-10-16 06:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? You probably didn't know when you would see each other again! Although if it were me, I'd probably be more keen to spend time getting to know each other mentally!
2006-10-16 06:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal enough to clock your sex and pack it down by the minute....lol
2006-10-16 06:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-16 06:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that's normal, it all depends on you both schedule.
2006-10-16 06:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋