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2006-10-15 22:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by gufjhfd h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
kill him and bury his body in the cellar
2006-10-15 22:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard to solve because others induced enmity.
Tell him you love him whatever he does.Show him you think, feel and act lovingly.If no results comes in a year then change your rhythm, be calm,unpredictable, don't show your plans,thoughts,feelings, be flexible like rubber but never fight.With some practise you will became expert for damping or preventing his actions.Use all as life's training, getting experienced with trouble making people.Earned knowledge of the strategy (winning without the war is the best) will help you many times in your future life.If you wish you can consult (regarding the strategy) The Book of Five Rings by Miyamoto Mushasi (legend of Japan swordsmanship) applicable in the all of the situation of everyday life (from birth till the stars).Good luck
2006-10-20 04:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by oceangleam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing an unhealthy psychological dance together. If you refuse to dance, he can't. In whatever ways you've been reacting to him, do the opposite. He will have to change his psychological dance step to match yours. You have an unhealthy dynamic going. You need to, just, change the dynamic.
Always ACT; never RE-ACT.
Everyday do just one thing that will please him. He doesn't even have to even know it. Just do it. Some small thing to make him happy. If he does notice, it's okay; but, don't make or let him make a big deal out of it; but, try not to let him know. Then, do 2 things a day that will bring him happiness. Regularly, increase the number of things you do for him a day. What goes around, comes around. Eventually, he's going to change and do the same. (It'll also drive him crazy!) It's fun!
Just try it! You're not doing this for him--you're doing it for you--to change the dynamics between you. But, it'll end up benefitting both of you, and probably everyone else in the household, as well.
In other words, give it (peace) a chance (1 month) if it doesn't work, you can always go back to war.
Please write to me in a month, and let me know how it went: sharynrichinchina@gmail.com
2006-10-16 06:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by GypsyGr-ranny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never ever think about getting rid of your brother but you always hold on to your brother.
You need to understand fighting among brothers or sisters are common when they were young.
You need to look at the good things that has happened to you. Also the good time you had with him.
Never think badly of him if you are nice to him then one day believe me you can win his heart at the end.
Remember winning him with your good deeds would last forever.
2006-10-16 06:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Emotionally or physically? If it's emotional, distance yourself from him, you don't say whether you are both in the family home, which might prove difficult. Siblings can be the cruellest of people you must find your own point where contact with him is bearable.
2006-10-16 05:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pay for his operation for a sex change and "she" maybe better as a sister---lol. but in reality you cant get rid of him just ignore him and hope he grows up. talk to your parents, friends or counsellor if it helps
2006-10-16 10:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by maslow5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore him.that used to work with my brother
2006-10-16 06:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by chelldon@btinternet.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to tell all his friends something embarrassing from his past if he doesn't leave you alone, it worked for me
2006-10-16 05:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by misterlister_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the one keeping him?If so just give him marching orders.But if you are still at your parents home.just ignore him.
2006-10-16 05:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that no matter how mean he is that you love him and that you always will ,my brother was the same now we are close and love each other.
2006-10-16 05:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by shelly f 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋