After a guy has told his gf tht he doesnt miss her but...the girl had always proved him tht he is the only guy in her life, that she misses him....the guy is sure tht she can never leave him as she is attached to him... and he keeps criticising her...THE GIRL SENDS A TEXT MESG TO HIM ATLAST THT -"SHE DOESNT MISS HIM, HE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT GUY SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH N HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HIM".BUT THE GUY REPIES "OK"....WILL IT EFFECT HIM AND WILL HE FEEL HER ABSENCE N IMPORTANCE??? WILL HE THINK OF COMING BACK TO HER ...
2006-10-15 22:24:23 · 11 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because the guy matters to the girl doesn't mean that he's going to reciprocate.
The guy appears to be overconfident that the girl will never leave him because she is so devoted. But as she has, and based on his response, he's likely feeling one of two things:
1. Like his pride was just slapped up the face with a baseball bat. Along with this is likely a lot of anger, possibly he'll try to spite the girl by going out with other girls, etc..
2. Regretful. Maybe he doesn't feel it right away, but soon enough he realizes that you don't know what you've got until you lose it. In this case, he might contact her.
Of course, there's also the possibility that he really doesn't care.
Want my advice? The girl should forget about this guy. She ought to go for someone who appreciates and respects her; there is absolutely no sense in putting up with that ****.
2006-10-15 22:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he thinks he has you all figured out.Did you guys have a fight and break up or something ?Does this guy get advice from his friends very often? Some guys believe everything that their friends say whether it's right or not.Is it possible that he brought up your birthday because he thinks you won't be able to survive without him there to celebrate it with you? Or do you think he bought you a present ? Some guys aren't too good when it comes to communication so....What you should be asking yourself is, is this someone that you really want to be with? How well do you know him and is he a trustworthy person ? Why did you say that he 's not so innocent and what does that mean?Why does he keep criticizing you?Is that a (good) thing for a boyfriend to do to a girl? Why is this guy so sure that you can never leave him? Does he really think that no other guys are interested in you?Is it important to him to have a girlfriend who will never leave him? If you can answer those questions then it will help you decide what you want to do next.He probably misses you but his pride won't let him call or apologize.Decide if he is worth all this aggravation and if he is then you have to both sit down and talk about what happened.You could call him first, but only if you are sure that you want to still be his girlfriend.Otherwise your just driving yourself crazy for nothing.Good luck.
2016-05-22 05:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have delt with such a situation. u r talking about ur importancein his life. r u imp. the answer u know.if he really loved he would have not shown u i can agree on this but i can never accept him criticizing u. now u said that u dont miss him but think urself r nt u missing him.girls land up in a problem when in the starting only they show the guy that he is the only person because thenthey start taking u for granted.if he really loves u he will call and now dont show up again the same thing but if he doesnt he was neverurs
2006-10-15 22:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by aggu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males arent as complicated as girls. If someone tells a gut to bugger oof, well, then he will. You told him to. He apparently has. They also work in funny ways. I had a HUGE Fight with my bf in June and he went off to minnesoda and yet early September and I recieved an email and we swore we'd never talk again. If he says he doesnt miss you, why bother with him?
2006-10-15 22:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Eurale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy says he doesnot miss you and that he doesnot contact you. then i guess it is fact. donot bother him. if he actually miss you he will definately come back.. the more you try to follow the more he will run ...
donot let him take you for granted by always being available for him.. after all you also have a life of your own....donot waste time on him... if he comes back.. then fine.. if he doensot the i guess it is his loss to let someone like you go...
2006-10-15 22:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't miss the girl and will not come back to her....why do girls always go for the guys that treat them like crap?....
2006-10-15 22:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser...
u know,drop him...why waste your time with someone who doesn't care about u as much as u want him to? im in the same situation and im thinking of the right thing to do...
2006-10-15 22:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did notget it well pls explain better but i dont think the guy needs the girl and he wont cxall or contact again but for sex he may do that.
2006-10-15 22:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well........your bf is just that "hard to understand"
perhaps he's really tired of your company
and he doesn't love you anymore....
just wait and wait and if one day he'll come to you and say he misses you then he still loves you or that he just can't move along without you........
2006-10-15 22:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by yucanzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are playing head games. if he cares, he misses you. he's an idiot for treating you like that.
2006-10-15 22:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋