im seeing my x boyfriend again. we've been separated for 8 years now but my love for him was never gone. he was my first boyfriend... we are friends but we never got to talk for a long time when we see each other, just "hi"-"hellos"..just recently we saw each other and got to chat... after a while he sent a message askin me out. we've been seeing each other for a while now.. by the way we go to the same school... now, we watch movies, he picks me up and just stroll around and talk and have fun...yes, we fool around... he told me that our status is "exclusively dating"... my God, what is that?! i mean, are we going somewhere? i really like him, i dont know maybe i love him! he's very sweet when we're 2gether but his messages are so cold...i'm confused! I have so many questions for him but I don't have the courage to ask. maybe that might turn him off and and honestly I'm afraid to lose him again.... i'm so wasted! help!
2006-10-15 21:35:39 · 17 answers · asked by mistee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people have difficulty expressing themselves so although they're very passionate...the signals they send are cold....he might be having that. If you're otherwise having a good time with each other, I suggest that you relax and enjoy his company and see how things go. He's definitely into you and "exclusively dating" means that he and you are both dating only each other, not other girls and boys...that means you're true boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't worry about asking him too many questions, just be confident and be yourself and this relationship will go in the directions that its supposed to go. Don't have sex though, no need to have a baby unless you're married or HIV at your age.
2006-10-15 21:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall into the trap. If he is Mr. Nice when you're around but different around other people or in public then hes not serious about your relationship. That just means he is two faced. Sit him down and tell him how you feel otherwise you may just be setting yourself up for a heartbreak. Also make sure that when you're fooling around you do use protection. I have a 3 year old with a guy I loved (in the same situation) and hes married to someone else and it is a really hard situation to be in, don't put yourself there.
2006-10-15 21:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me by the way he's cold in the text messaging is because he only wants to deal with you on his time, which basically means whenever and if ever he decides to drop by. You are a convenience to him, and if you start making any demands, it will be adios.
If you two are "exclusively dating" then why is it that he doesn't take you on a date? A dvd at home , a stroll in the park sure thats alright, but you deserve better. The guy is using you for a piece of butt
2006-10-15 21:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 08:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are exclusively dating then he does not want you seeing anyone else and you are suppose to be the only one for him! If you are comfortable enough to fool around with him then you should be able to ask him anything! Don't go around walking on egg shells!
2006-10-15 21:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its scary but the only way you are gonna move forward is to have a frank and honest chat with him! Otherwise you'll end up driving yourself nuts! Best of luck
2006-10-15 21:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by cheekimadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you'd rather live in a relationship that is a lie than ask him for the truth? You'd rather live in doubt than face losing him? You broke up once and your life went on, it sure would the second time.
2006-10-15 21:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Just your average guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun u seem like a lovely girl by what i have just read and if u don't ask u wont no so i say ask him and if he don't answer u or he gets funny u no he don't feel the same and its his loss but then again he mite just answer u stirte away gd look on what you do xx
2006-10-15 21:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why both of you separated. Its easy to fall in love with ex when you still love him. Thus you have to be logical not emo. Is there no more other man?
2006-10-15 21:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
exclusively dating means that u are the only girl that he cares about. as far as the other questions u can email me at marcus8o8@gmail.com and we can talk more about that
2006-10-15 21:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋