A guy I met recently invites me to his friends parties, we make out sometimes, and then he spends the night at my place without sex.
Thing is, he invited me to a party of a girl who he has expressed interests in having sex with yet he said she's not his type to date. He says she's "pretty hot" though.
When I was eating dinner with my guy friend, he called me. Later that day we hung out and he asked me if I had feelings for my friend and what my friend looked like/if he was cute.
Yet this guy tells me about "cool" girls he meets in bars.
Then he says he likes older women--while I'm younger---but then 5 minutes later he says he likes younger women. (I'm 20; he's 23.)
I'm seriously confused. Does he like me or not?
I mean it does not really matter since we're not in a relationship and only friends with make-out benefits, but still. What is he doing?
Then he asks me if I ever think what it's like to be married. I guess it's just conversation topic, what the hell?
2006-10-15 21:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He calls me up once a week to hang out, usually to hang out with his friends and go to their parties. He goes to my apartment afterwards when I didn't really ask him to, yet I don't mind. I'm just confused at the whole situation.
2006-10-15 21:01:19 · update #1
Poster2: Using me for what? I have never given him oral, handjobs, nor sex. At all. I haven't done anything for him. He just wants to go down on me..it makes no sense.
2006-10-15 21:03:26 · update #2
Then he tells me that he likes that i'm a challenge, and that we have a mental conneciton because we both do not know what we want in life. But I told him I willl never have sex with him, because of certain issues I don't want to get into.
Wtf?
2006-10-15 21:06:24 · update #3
Hello this is your wakeup call - he is using you until he finds something he thinks is better.
PS I never indicated in my answer that I thought it was about sex between you 2. I still think he is using you until he finds someone who will have sex with him.
2006-10-15 21:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to figure him out,figure out you.figure out why you hang with him and what do you want from him.decide if you want an intimate relationship with this nut or just a friendship b/c you are going to have to cross that bridge sooner or later.you need to concentrate on whether he has the qualities you like or not just in case,If he seems contradictory now then your future maybe the same with him.worry about what makes you smile not what he's up too.
2006-10-16 04:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to figure out what you want. I think he does like you. He expresses that he likes other girls to see how you react to this. Coming home with you shows his interest in you. Give him time and also sit down with him and really see what you and him want in a relation. But clearly he is showing interest in you. So step forward and see where he is going with this.
2006-10-16 04:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by harmonryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it if you don't want a relationship with him? Sounds like you're friends who like to make out every once in awhile. He's definitely treating you like a friend when he talks about other women. Leave it at that, unless you want more.
2006-10-16 04:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Min02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex.
2006-10-16 04:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now U're making me confused as well.
2006-10-16 04:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might ask him about whether he likes guys.
2006-10-16 04:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want to be with you and have other girls too
2006-10-16 04:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he wants
2006-10-16 04:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-10-16 04:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋