...what was the reason?
2006-10-15 20:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
frustration? loneliness? or just another guy with a lousy excuse..
2006-10-15 20:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am definately not saying people should cheat, but when I did, it upset me to no end. It deepend my conscience.
1) seperation- being far out of sight and mind of gf.
2) convenience- an old friend visiting me.
3) alcohol- with an old friend that was visiting me. she wanted to drink, and I hadn't in a while. I trusted her anyways.
4)seduction- kind of went along with the alcohol and non stop flattery. somewhere along the line she made a move and I took it around the bases.
all my reasons are vain. I know. Because I know I am guilty. I am responsible for what I did. My only scapegoat to myself in retrospect was that if any of those 4 things listed above were not prevalent there is no way I would have. if my gf was present no way. if the other person was not needing to visit me when they were in town. no way. if there was no alcohol...the weakest of the arguments, but there is no way i think i would have, and maybe she wouldnt have been so seductive if we werent drinking and carrying on. without her putting moves on me, I never would have guessed she had any sort of a thing for me that was not pleutonic
The consequence was a really bad dirty conscience, so I told my gf about it. Four months later I uncovered something she had done (not in response to my faithlessness or in similarity of activity, but by similar virtue of lacking faith).
Her brother cued me in to what she did. I confronted her about it. She would have just as soon I forgot about it. I said I would try. Four months later after that she had not so much as lifted a finger to make reparations for what she did, for which she even had trouble admitting, I realized the lack of content in her character and I broke up with her.
It is funny that in retrospect, looking back at this situation, that I had done something so bad, seems to me I had a vantage of perception on the honesty and a dipstick for the true love vibes and trust between us as a side effect. It helped me to realize the woman who I cheated on was really not worth cheating on at all, that I should have left her behind long ago.
2006-10-16 03:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, if it ever got to the point where I would cheat a girlfriend it would only be because I was going to leave her in the very near future anyway.
I only stay with women I like, and I don't want to hurt women I like by cheating on them.
2006-10-16 03:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that guy have another gf or he did something make her unhappy so he don't want let her know so much about it then cheated her.
2006-10-16 03:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, i would NEVER cheat on a gf. But if i did, i guess it would be because she possibly cheated on me first or somethin...
2006-10-16 03:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by g13player 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but I wanted to...but never did cross the line.
2006-10-16 04:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have yahoooo i just got to level 6
2006-10-16 03:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Better as s.
2006-10-16 03:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋