do u think a women will marry me even if i tell her about me? my friendz say i should never tell her but i think its not fair
2006-10-15 20:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by oooopsoooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gay people aren't very popular. if u don't like it why would anyone else? keep it to urself.
2006-10-15 20:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by j rock 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First thing to do is to spend some time with a psychiatrist to attempt to dig out what your motives really are, and to come to terms with your sexuality, whatever it turns out to be. The idea is to either learn to accept your gay side as an essential part of your psyche, or get rid of it, whichever is more appropriate. If you then want to pursue a heterosexual relationship, do tell the woman about your history in this matter -- it would be unfair to hide it. If you can accept yourself, she will be able to also.
2006-10-16 03:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also bi ..... bi ever ladies side LOL!!!
You need to make up your mind!
And i think if you like to be tap for behind you are a gay and that is the way you will stay.
Because if you are a real man you would love & respect the Pu $$ Y !
2006-10-16 03:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna love women and you are attracted to men. To tell, or not to tell. Well, you like the female team, so how's being bi gonna stop that. i can see if you hated being gay, that might make it a bit tough. Its not about being completely honest or that she should love all of you. i mean, if you feel compelled to tell her, go for it. but if you are uncomfortable with it, its not the most important thing she needs to know.
unless you are having stong lustful urges for anohter man, i wouldn't tell her. no need to be honest unless it will affect you. your not really hiding anything. ur not gay. you like both teams, and you chose the F team. so join that side. they don't need to know unless your a Benidict Arnold and switch sides in the middle of the relationship.
2006-10-16 03:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will find a woman one day who will marry you .
I believe honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships.So later on in a relationship when you know each other well, in my opinion would be a good time to tell her,and if she cant accept it move on,there are plenty of women out there who will.
2006-10-16 03:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hope you would tell her. To have someone truly love all of you, they need to know the truth about your sexual preference. Be up front and honest. Anyone you love deserves as much. You might want to wait on telling her until the relationship is serious, but please tell her before any intimacy takes place. Respect her enough to be honest with her.
2006-10-16 03:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, it wouldnt be fair to her. you really need to search your soul before you commit to a relationship with either sex. some women dont mind the fact that men are bi, just be honest with who ever you meet. good luck!
2006-10-16 03:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made a huge step. You're being honest with yourself. You're also right in thinking it's not fair to her. It wouldn't be. If she truly loves you, she'll marry you, but you have to promise her and yourself that you will be honest and committed to her.
2006-10-16 03:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you dont like ur gay side dont put urself in any position to feel like that go to the strippers or sumthing
2006-10-16 03:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by PENELOPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill your gay side by going to tity bar every day
2006-10-16 03:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by CAMELS 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋