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sometimes suicide thoughts cross the mind when unhappy about work, relationship or life in general... how close can it get?

2006-10-15 19:56:28 · 15 answers · asked by alfahomme 2 in Health Mental Health

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I don't know how close it can get. Over my 60 some years of life I have known 3 people who have taken their own lives. All seemed to me to be selfish, as their survivors wondered what they had done to deserve it, and what they could have done to prevent it. I have come to the conclusion that people who end their own lives are punishing those who love them. Is that rational? If it isn't rational, perhaps suicidal thoughts should be rethought with professional input, and with consideration for not just oneself, but for those who love us. It takes far more courage to live than to choose the alternative.

2006-10-15 20:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by duaner87421 3 · 0 4

I have been suffering from post partum depression for the past one year when I gave birth to a baby boy. I couldn't stop thinking about how my husband loves him more than me and how things might be better if he wasn't born at all. Thus, I stayed away from him because I knew that I might do something I will regret for the rest of my life.

Almost instantly I went to a therapist and convince them that I need help. Among other things, I've tried herbal supplements and other book to treat depression but nothing works like the Depression Free Method. So now I'm proud to say I'm one of the happiest mother in the world. My husband loves us both very much and I thank the Lord for the blessing he gave us.

Depression Free Method?

2016-05-15 22:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends on the person, the situation, the state of mind all those things play a part. I am bipolar and those thought come into my mind from time to time but I could never do it. I know I am here for a reason. I could never hurt my family or my fiancee like that. To be a coward and take my own life. I have come very close but somehow talk myself out of it. The fact is you can undo it if you are successful.

Many people make the choose to do with even knowing why. They leave behind questions that will never be answered and their loved ones to feel guilty for not knowing. Sometimes all it takes is one person to step in and it will be stopped.

I hope I have answered your question.

2006-10-15 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by tasha 5 · 0 0

It can get very close indeed. Sometimes the mind can go in overload, where it makes you think that suicide is the answer. Even though it is the coward way out, making you believe that you ,yourself can not overcome these feelings. I found it hard my self to overcome this feeling but I had to reach deep down in myself to tell myself that i am worthy of living and that life is valuable in so may ways. Love your self and trust your heart to make a sound decision. Fight the felling not your self.

2006-10-15 20:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0 0

Whenever anyone is feeling suicidal and has suicidal thoughts on their mind they can be cured of their depression by the Homeopathic Remedy AURUM MET 30 or 200 for a few days. No side effects and No Complications ever.
Take Care and God Bless you !

2006-10-15 20:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

I was under severe depression for 5 years, The main thought in my mind was to avenge my enemies. I was so pre occupied I was only thinking of how to punish those cruel human animals.

The most important issue here or anywhere is the co-operation and understandig you when in depression by others whom are living with.

The best example of how dangerous a depressed perso with the influence of alchocol was no one else than the Prince of NEPAl, whom not only killed himself but wiped the entire family with machine gun.

It is at that stage and time when people who are living with U did not know how to cope up wiith depressed persons U tend to commit suicide or things like that come to mind.

If U are under the influence of alchocol or drugs, what comes to your mind may actually lead U to commit it.

So it is better to treat people suffering with depression etc and those live with the depressed people must take enough care not to arouse or lead to such thoughts.

2006-10-15 20:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Loganathan Raja Rajun R 3 · 0 0

I've had the gun in hand...It can get very close. The funny thing, at least to me, about suicide is that I believe that if I do it; I'll go to hell-which, I think you'll agree, would pretty much suck. If I don't do it, then whatever pain I'm in continues. Either way-I'm screwed. The first time I truly thought about that and laughed at it...I guess I decided to do the ol' "get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." shuffle. It's only life after all.

2006-10-15 20:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by happygogilmore2004 3 · 0 0

I've fought this battle most of my life. I first attempted suicide when I was a teenager. Came as close to it as you can - I died and they brought me back. I went into treatment and learned I was bi-polar. I stayed with my treatment for a few years and then quit thinking I could do it on my own. I struggled with it for almost 20 years before it finally got bad enough that I wanted to die. Instead of trying to kill myself again - I went to the emergancy room of the local hospital. It was the hardest thing I've ever done going in there and telling them that I was thinking of hurting myself and needed help. But it worked. They got me back into treatment, back on the medications that I needed to be stable in my life and I haven't looked back. It hasn't been easy by any means, but at least I've got my life back in control. So, I guess my answer to your question is - it can get close enough to kill you - and that's too close. If you are thinking of hurting yourself - get help now before it's too late. Don't risk your life on betting how bad it can get before you lose it. If you can't find anyone around you that can help you - do like I did and just go to your local hospital. There is help out there. Good luck.

2006-10-15 20:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0 0

I truly believe that nearly everybody has suicidal thoughts from time to time. According to Freud all human beings have an inborn desire to destroy themselves and everybody around them. The key is to rise above it..whether that's through your church, family support, counselling or antidepressants. Depression and mental illness should never be taken lightly. Get the help and support you need.

2006-10-15 20:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends on how serious you feel, sometimes people can just feel that life isn't worth living anymore but don't get suicidal, othertimes they will go through with it. If you are seriously thinking about it then get help.

2006-10-15 20:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jez 5 · 0 0

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