Is there a best time to lose your virginity?
2006-10-15 19:49:17 · 25 answers · asked by crzybeachchic 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
When u're ready to go,without any compulsion of friends,ur bf,situation,age,curiosity and other.
2006-10-15 20:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by L1NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you the ideal time and circumstances would be after you were married and on your honeymoon, with the person you chose to share the rest of your life. Ideally you would have a few days at least, to take the time to get to know one another and explore a new and intense way of expressing your love for one another. Although there are lots of pressures to lose your virginity, and lots of reasons given- the final decision should be yours and made after much thought about it. You should not lose your virginity just to convince some guy to stick around, because your girlfriends all think it's the right thing to do, or because you are the only virgin that you know of. It is not the way to "prove" you love somebody, in fact, if that is the only reason you can think of to lose your virginity, you really need to wait. Sex does not prove love in any way. Losing your virginity should be done by making love with somebody who can appreciate the gift you are giving them. It should be the intimate, ultimate expression of a mutual love, between two people with a true commitment to one another. To lose your virginity for anything less is short changing yourself. You can have sex, and simply lose your virginity as if it were just another vestige of childhood to be cast aside. Or you can hold your virginity as a precious gift, to be given at the time and place, and to the person worthy of such a gift, in an act of true love.
Remember, once lost it is never regained. I can tell you that if you decide to simply cast it aside, you will regret it. What you will have experienced is simply sex, much like the rest of the animal kingdom does. You will wonder if this is all there is to it, and be sadly disappointed. You may well feel cheap and used, and resentful of the person you gave it to. If you can resist this temptation, at least until you determine the time and person are right, and know the person you are gifting truly understands and appreciates what you are giving, then it may be time. You will experience it as it was meant to be experienced, as a deep and intimate expression of love.
2006-10-15 20:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by The mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If ya dun wanna use a condom, then 1 week before or 1 week after is best time to loose your virginity... well it all depends on whom you wanna loose it with and how much you love the guy... ideally speaking, all men wud love to have a virgin wife, but practically, it dun happen... so.. good luck and stay safe!!!
2006-10-15 19:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by zucco_69m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will remember losing your virginity for the rest of your life...assuming "normal" mental health and a state of sobriety. Just ponder for a moment that little tidbit...The rest of your life. This moment, this experience, this place, this person, for the rest of your life. If you don't take precautions you'll have another little, living, breathing reminder of that moment and person for the rest of your life. Just repeat after me over and over again to yourself...the rest of my life. I'll always remember this...
If you're ready, you'll know. By the way this method works for trying to decide if you wanna get married to a particular person too. I'm divorced...lol. If I had done this little exercise, I would never had married her. The rest of your life, one way or the other, the rest of your life.
2006-10-15 20:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by happygogilmore2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can really tell you how or when, but the time that will work in your best interest is your wedding night. I've heard people say that you have to test the car before you drive it. Well, people aren't cars and we don't drive them around. That's not what it's all about.
2006-10-15 19:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you're ready is all that matters. Some people will say on your wedding night but that really depends on you. Whats best and moral for one person may not be the same for another. It really helps to know that you either care about the person a lot and they feel the same. But I guess its different for guys and girls. I really wanted to just hurry up and experience it. I was ready to screw anything about. I was 14 and I don't regret when or who it was with. I don't wanna desensitize you from it, but you will see, it's just sex.
2006-10-15 19:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by xxplalmxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt do so before 20 and then only after you in a committed relationship with someone you trust and feel ready with them.
I would NOT suggest the wedding night nor marrying someone before knowing them sexually, assuming you intend to spend your entire lives together. Not everyone in love is sexually compatible and after marriage isnt the time to find out if you can work through it.
2006-10-15 20:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by SASHA123 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will know when it is the right time, and the right person. Just remember, you can't ever get it back!
2006-10-16 02:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nana Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wedding night is the way to go.
2006-10-15 19:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by LivingDownSouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time is when you are naturally ready to accept it.
and enjoy it.
2006-10-15 20:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by mo a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋