I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. The first month we effecially got together he cheated on me. He went to to a club with some friends and got really drunk and kissed a girl. He immediately told me that night. I still loved him so I stayed with him. Now I've been with him for 5 months and he hasn't given me no reason to believe hes doing anything. He doesn't go out to clubs or bars anymore, and when he does he wants me to go with him. He never cares when I go through his phone....and he always wants me to be with him, and stay over at his apartment. He always tells me he loves me and that he wants to marry me some day. Its obvious that this guy loves me...but then I think If he loves me that why did he kiss another girl a while back? I'm also worried because he lives with another guy roomate and theres always people there partying, and I get worried when Im not with him, and what hes doing.
2006-10-15 19:45:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to say, that yes he will..........
2006-10-15 19:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by slaytanicmobilization 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he cheat again ?? who knows..But take this advice from someone who's been in a few relationships with women who constantly ask and try and make sure im not cheating.
It drives a man f*cking nuts.
I look at it this way, why worry about something i have absolutely no control over. If your mate is going to cheat , you cant stop it and constant badgering will do nothing but drive a wedge in the relationship.
If you trust the guy and want to continue dating him let it go.. if you feel you cant trust him move on it's as simple as that .You cant have a healthy relationship without trust.
2006-10-16 03:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you cant control him. He is going to do what he is going to do. From past experiences there are some red flags here. First, if he drinks a lot (and you too), that is an invitation for trouble. Because when people drink the " police " go out of your brain and people do things they wouldnt normally do. Already there is a trust issue because you look at his phone book. I think the only way this will work is if he quits drinking, embraces you and marries you. If he loves you, you should get married. Counseling wouldnt hurt either.
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2006-10-16 02:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is stop worrying about it. If you think about this all the time, it will eventually drive him crazy. Guys hate it when a girl asks the same questions over and over or when they go through their phones, looking for answers. If you forgive him, just forget about it and trust him.
2006-10-16 02:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone can say it was just a kiss but kisses mean a lot too. You must always remember the saying "Once a cheater always a cheater". If he had the guts to cheat once then he will have the guts to do it again.
2006-10-16 03:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jacobs #23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all he did was kiss another girl, then i wouldn't worry about it. he probably caresfor you, otherwise he wouldn't have been upfront about it, unless you think the kiss underlines other actions not mentioned. if not, he was honest enough to tell you right away, and sounds like he's trying to make you more comfortable with him again. nothing can tell you what he may again.
but he was drunk and honest. a combination you hardly see in anyone. ever.
2006-10-16 02:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look he made a drunken mistake thats all,i sure it was nothin at all, we all make mistakes, he is showing u that u can trust him, its no good being worried about what might happen in the future, it could be u who finds someone else! sounds to me that he only wants u. forget about the drunkin kiss. and remember jealousy is the green eyed monster in all of us.
2006-10-16 02:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he did is kiss a girl, it's no big deal. I don't even see that as cheating. Quit worrying about it or he may say to heck with it, if she thinks I'm gonna I might as well.
2006-10-16 02:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, it was just a kiss... it's not like he slept with her or something....
I think the best thing is for your boyfriend to learn to drink within his limits and not get totally smashed at parties and stuff... oh ya! one more, you can't have a real relationship when you don't have trust.
2006-10-16 02:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you forgave him then you need to let it go. He is not giving you any reason not to trust him, in fact he never did. He made a mistake and told you about it. You need to ask yourself...Is one drunken kiss worth losing a life partner because you have trust issues?
2006-10-16 02:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by bluebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was drunk thts y he kissed another girl
2006-10-16 02:49:06 · answer #11 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋