Maybe I'm becoming a little bitter but why do nice guys who just ry and find a respectable relationship, you know, the one where you actually love someone always have to find that person after years and years of being treated like trash, neglected, used, and basically waste most of their lives to be some girls last resort because she wanted to have fun and all that crap, but decides to "settle" on someone else. Its a load of bull ****.
2006-10-15 19:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah some gals are like that, but not all. You just have to wait for the correct person to come along. By the way, why get bitter over finishing last? Is that important? if you can get a gd woman you loved for your whole life, why care if you finish last? would you rather finish early and get a woman that you do not want? or of lower calibre?
you are a nice guy, you know it, and that's all it matters. If you don't like what you are in now, go be a bad guy, maybe you can get lotsa gals into your hand but, are they gd gals you want?
2006-10-15 19:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to stop being so giving. You have to give just enough effort to make a relationship work, but there is such a thing as giving too much. Girls love a sweet guy, but they always shy away from the guys that are "too" sweet. The secret is to save time for yourself. Make sure you tend to things in your personal life, even if you are in a relationship. Never give 100% to your relationship because it will get boring to the girl, and she will leave.
2006-10-16 03:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can take some time. It sounds like you've met alot of immature women who just weren't worth your time. It's painful and difficult. But you're not going to finish last. My husband was a nice guy and it was worse for him while dating - because of a disability. Girls were like - oh he can't support me financially or I just want to be your friend. How about he ever famous - let's kiss and enjoy each other with no commitment of any kind and what? I wouldn't even think of marrying YOU! So my husband waited until he was 37 to meet me. Kind of older - it kind of just fell into place when he let it go and stopped being frustrated about his situation and just started enjoying life with his friends. It's like the right things happen when you're not looking for them.
2006-10-16 02:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because of just that, people enjoy having fun. Nice guys just take it and take it when sometimes women need that a$$hole.
2006-10-16 02:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by nuckles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... you've got a really good point. Better ask her where she's been before you make the committment.
2006-10-16 02:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yer own man, son
if yer happy,
the right lass will show up
...and she'll be bonny, too
2006-10-16 02:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by paddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
settling suxxxxx
2006-10-16 02:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋