I just went on a second date with this woman on Satuday night. It consisted of dinner at a really nice restaurant and a movie we both enjoyed. She was talkative and enthusiastic, and I believe she really enjoyed our evening as much as I did. We did not talk at all the next day; I made a point of not calling, so as to avoid sounding overeager. Also, I did not go for a goodnight kiss, even though it was our second date. Your thoughts?
Anyway, all that being said, I've been struck with the bright idea of sending her flowers tomorrow. She works late, which means she wouldn't be home in time for a delivery, so I wanna take the gamble and send them to her workplace. It'll be a simple arrangement, like a bouquet - I figure a dozen red roses would be too bold a statement.
Yea or nay?
2006-10-15 19:17:44 · 22 answers · asked by kevinb671 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, If you werent comfortable kissing her yet, then you did the right thing, kiss her when you fell you are ready.
Second, flowers seem like a good idea, most women will like flowers any time =). Good luck!
2006-10-15 19:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be lovely, especially if you send a simple little arrangment with a short note or something like that. I agree with you about the roses - that might be a bit much, but otherwise I think that's very thoughtful.
About the goodnight kiss, I think as long as both of you had a good time and it felt right, not going for a kiss is totally acceptable. If by chance she misinterpreted it for not being interested I'm sure the flowers will get the right message across, anyway!
2006-10-15 19:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sending her flowers at work would be fine. She would like it if others knew she was considered special. But you are right about the roses, Red roses mean love and seriousness. Send her yellow roses or some other types of flowers that make a statement. Leave a simple note with them, like, I was just thinking of you today, and wanted to let you know I had a great time the other night. And I hope we can have more, give me a call. That way you are not overly eager and your letting her decide what she wants to do.
2006-10-15 19:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wouldn't have gone on a second date with you if she wasn't interested. She's probably going to be confused when she receives the flowers, because you haven't called her, which is a far more attentive thing to do with a woman you're interested in. Call her, and hope it's not too late, because by not following up with a phone call to say how much you enjoyed her company the previous evening, you're sending mixed messages with a flower arrangement. I know she's probably thinking 'why didn't he call?'. Call her immediately and ask her out on a third date. This time, follow up with a phone call the next day.
2006-10-15 19:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that's a great! I would love if my boyfriend would have done that! I think you are definitely right about not going with the full blown dozen of red roses...save that for later, further into the relationship. I also agree with what someone mentioned before me about sending a card with the flowers telling her that you had fun and ask her if she's up for another date. By what you said she does sound pretty interested, so I don't believe your making a mistake by sending the flowers and the card (if you're going to do it). Good luck and I hope she loves it as much as a lot of us girls would!.
2006-10-15 19:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bouquet sounds good....but not red roses though, it'll look like you're trying too hard....go for something small and subtle but that'll leave an impact.....maybe four lovely lilies tied together with a nice satin ribbon (this is just a suggestion, by the way).....whichever flowers you choose, she'll be grateful of the fact that you took the intiative to show that you appreciate her....good luck:)
2006-10-15 19:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, you sound like a sweet guy. Lucky girl. I would be flattered if someone sent me flowers at work. I would try something a little less bold than the dozen roses though. Save that for later on in the relationiship ;) Keep it simple. Good luck :)
2006-10-15 19:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job not kissing on the second date,you should just let the feelings flow.yes you should send her flowers and it should say something like this_just wanted to let you know that i was thinking of you, and have a great day.!
I hope you have a great relationship with this girl.
p.s.- go with white daises and on the card include- well you go on a third date with me.-make it a fun date. you need to teach her something on the date- that way ya'll can get close.
EX. go make something together.
2006-10-15 19:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by kb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never push somebody - because you are already blind.
Some people needs more time to make their mind. You want give all the candy in the world to her. But be realistic what she really knows about you. Gun shut viva love - do you want give her the flowers every week to the rest of your life.??
2006-10-15 19:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's moved on and you need to do the same. Leave her in your past where she belongs. Although your intentions are good, they are probably not welcomed. You said you respected her decision but you really haven't! She wants you out of her life! Be true to your word and respect the fact you're history!
2016-05-22 05:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rilla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋