My bf saw me with my mom her friend and some friends. He walked rite by and dident say hi. I tried to tlk to him but he ignored me. I got very mad because he blew me off and embaressed my in front off alot of people (hez been doing this alot lately...) Later that day i waz so mad so i called his cell and he wazent sry atall so i dumped him. I sat in my room and cried/missed him. Then he called me and told me how sorry he waz and that it wldnt happen again so i got bak together wit him. Everything waz great (he told me how much he loved me/wanted to be wit me all nite over c-mail/fone). The next day he wldnt reply to my c-mails and wen he finally did he said he dident think that things were wrkin. I asked why and he said "im sorry im jst confused can we tlk later" so i called him later and he said that all his friends want him to dump me cuz i cause alotta drama. But he dident. Today at school he only talked to me to say bye and hug me. He usually sitts wit/ tlks 2 me. WAT SHLD I DO?!?!
2006-10-15 19:10:56 · 15 answers · asked by Lenny L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
I think u all mite be rite about needing 2 dump him...but ill be so sad......i dunt no if i can...
2006-10-15 19:34:18 · update #1
I'm in college so I know what girls like you in HS are about relationships...honestly, this guy is not worth it, don't cry over him....and think of it this way, who are his friends to decide who he goes out with or not? Coming from a guy, he is using a strategy that can very well pay off for him...he is not showing interest in you at times, yet later on comes back and tries to sound like the sweet loving guy...he wants you to break down (which unfortunately you have) and wants you to feel desparate and try to keep things working (which you are trying to do....) somewhere along the line he is hoping that you'd resort to sleeping with him....I'm sorry to say this, but remember I am a guy, and just like I can't understand women as well as other women, you just gotta believe that you can't understand guys as well as other guys...therefore, I can honestly tell you this guy is not worth it...and its not the end of the world, you will not meet your future husband in HS, nor in college...well the chances in college are SLIGHTLY greater but not for the first couple of years...therefore don't feel like he is the love of your life and you have to make this work....there are plenty of other guys that are just waiting to go out with you, trust me.
2006-10-15 19:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by MConnery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it sounds like he's not sure what he is doing. The best thing you can do is back off and give him some time. I wouldn't even answer his phone calls for awhile. See how things go while you are apart. Who knows, you may even find someone who treats you better. But after some time apart, maybe you both can figure out what you want. I'm assuming from the fact that you said you were both in school that you are a bit young. Things are always hard when you are younger - but it will work out in the end whether you stay together or not. You've got your whole life to figure out relationships with guys. Just be patient.
2006-10-15 19:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't losing him sugar he's already gone and he's simply playing with your head ,,,,, Don't let him make a fool of you ,,,,,, That's what he's doing you know ,,,, And if he calls you on the phone then answer by acknowledging that you got is call but then just hang up ,,,,,Pretty soon he'll get tired of it and not bother you anymore ,,,,, And I don't know if he'd try to do it but don't take him back either NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS OR DOES,,, He'd probably most likely do it again anyway ,,,,There are ways of letting someone down easy you know ,,,, what he's done isn't one of them so stick to your guns ,,, How big does the broom have to be before you recognize the brush off ,,,,,, Forget him and move on ,,,, There are allot of other fish in the pond ,,,,,,and this won't be the only time you break up with someone so don't take it too seriously ,,,,,,,,, good luck ,
2006-10-15 19:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first few days or even months can be hard...but try to focus on more important things in life...like ur family and friends...they are the ones who would be there for you through thick and thin. Or even ur studies.Bf or no...bf...they are just...a bonus...
2006-10-15 19:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Aranel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you what's wrong- he's confused and his friends are morons!! Just give him some time to work this out... back off for a few days and let him breathe.
2006-10-15 19:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by LeGuts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve this, why don't you show him that you are better of with out him and go on get a new boyfriend and have fun you'll have more fun when you see how jealous he can get.
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2016-10-19 11:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by wach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on you'll look back on it in about a month and wonder why you even dated him. Good Luck be STRONG!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 21:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and find a betta bf
2006-10-15 19:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes losing interest in you
2006-10-15 19:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋