2006-10-15 18:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, the sad truth is that you could very well die alone, havin never been in love or loved. All those fairy tales about god having a plan or fate will play out is a bunch of bull ****. There is no god, and fate only has one rule to play by.The only thing we have to cling onto is the mind numbing fact that people are merely animals, the strong live and the weak die, just like in love. Its sucks but its the only. I know its had to accept but I guess we're responsible for ourselves, so when we die cold and alone we can curse ourselves.
2006-10-15 20:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is entirely possible. But, I would say for an individual is to follow your heart. If you're meant to be alone - you'll have different desires than a person who does not want to be alone. Some people enjoy being single forever and it's great for them. I'd say the majority of folks have the desire to be married and start their own family. If you have that desire then you're probably not meant to be single. If that's not something you really long for - then you could be meant to be single. But if you have the desire there is someone - the question is how long will it take to find that person and what's the best way to do that? If you take no action you could end up being a person who has the desire who never met the right person because they didn't bother to really take any action to search. Church singles groups can be great with their fun social activities and such too.
2006-10-16 01:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who think they deserve to be alone should go on a very long trip away from their familiar surroundings. You'd be amazed how many people there are out there who are in the very same predicament.
Make friends, meet as many people as possible. Be open and amenable to anything and you will find someone who's perfect for you. I guarantee it!
You get what you put in. If you don't try, nothing will come of it. But don't try too hard because you'll just get frustrated.
There is someone for everyone! Maybe even two or three for everyone!
2006-10-16 01:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by flickfever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By saying 'being alone' do you mean without a man? I just recently learned this and it was a long hard road, but being without a man is not a bad thing!! You DO NOT have to have a man to 'complete' you. I am blessed to have friends, family and two wonderful children. So, give that some thought you are never alone. Does it get lonely? Sure it does, but I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship just so I'm not alone. Stand on your own two feet and be happy!!
2006-10-16 01:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by computergrl69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is possible! If people choose it to be, See if you really want to be with that one person you would look for him or he would look for you or you both just go somewhere and bump into each-other some are ment to be alone when all they want to do is see how many people they can get with or cheat or just want to party until they are how ever old, those people never really change yes some may but not many, I alwayz say if it's ment to be it's ment to be. If you really want that one person you'll find him or her if you just want to party who knows but in the end there really isn't someone out there for everyone not in this day and age.......
2006-10-17 00:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so because if everyone was meant to be with someone then no one would die alone unless your soulmate died first. The fact that there are people who never find anyone is proof that not everyone is meant to have someone.
2006-10-16 01:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by sjp_amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing in life that is certain...is that nothing is 100% certain.
It could be possible...though that would suck. I'd like to believe that there is someone for everyone and that it's just a matter of finding them,
2006-10-16 01:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.Some people are meant to be alone.
2006-10-16 01:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i believe there has to be someone out there for everybody. But its hard...everything and everyone are mixed into one society, and its hard to find the right person, don't give up.
2006-10-16 01:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have thought the same thing myself! But girl don't think that way-go out and get your man! You need to look at it this way- you just have not found him yet! THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT HE IS NOT OUT THERE! Don't stop looking!
2006-10-16 01:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋