My boyfriend and I are on a two week break. We have been together for alittle over 2years. I think he wants to be single but I am not 100% sure.How am I suppose to deal with this when I love him so much and we have been through so much? He loves me and all but if he ends up not wanting to be with me I will feel so lost. I dont want to be a pathetic girlfriend, I want to act like everything is cool.
What do I do in general???
2006-10-15 17:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Candace Chloe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to stay positive. This is a critical time for feeling good. Confidence is at a premium for you as you need to try things out again with a clear head and a reinvigorated will. I don't know how else to asy it, but positive energy perpetuates positive energy. Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself two things every day, every time you feel down about your situation. Rmind yourself that if it is meant to be, it will and you are ready to give 100% to it. But if it doesn't work out, it will not be for a lack of effort on your part and you will be ok. You will know if you are the only one trying and then it is not your loss but his. You can't be in a relatonship by yourself.
2006-10-15 17:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so funny, I kind of feel the same way about my ex boyfriend, we broke up a week ago, and I also feel as if he wants to be single, I know it's hard, like today I was feeling a little depressed but I managed to keep myself busy, another day went by and the fact that I didn't call him makes me feel great. You gotta take it day by day, keep yourself busy and whenever you feel sad or a little depressed call a friend or get a good book and go out for a cup of cofee or tea. That's what I do and it helps a lot, haven't seen him for a week now and I don't feel that bad. Good luck and hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-16 00:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by JEJEMMY♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "break" means move on. Especially when the guy initiates it. Start paying a LOT of attention to another guy and watch the reaction. I'm willing to bet there will be little to no reaction.
2006-10-16 00:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by captian random 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together for 2 years and he still isn't sure then it is time you kicked him to the curb and move on. You have given him every opportunity to make this a permanent thing and he has resisted so move on in you life......
2006-10-16 00:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont want him to stay with you if he doesn't really want to be with you, do you? i mean, you should be in a relationship with each other because that's what you both want....this is just your guy's way of figuring out what he really wants, and it's either going to make you guys stronger in the end, or it was just not meant to be.
2006-10-16 00:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is in a "break" I don't get it either. To me this is a nice way of breaking up and letting you do whatever you want.
2006-10-16 00:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋