I don't know what to do because i love him.
2006-10-15 17:27:39 · 18 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spiffy up. Try a new hairdo, color, etc. Wear some cute low cut tops and show off your figure to him and flirt a little. One thing men like is to be bragged on something they love to do like car racing, sports, etc. Build him up and he'll lay you down.
2006-10-15 17:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that.....for 20 years...it doesn't change...I had therapy...counseling....tried tricks...begged.....and even tried to do everything better. Nothing worked.
In your case it might though, mine didn't make eye contact or have sex with me. So you can drive him to a secluded place and demand a romantic dinner or picnic...beach or park....go somewhere together....make a date at a motel....wear something new.....do something really nice for him, or you could start another tactic. What's good for the goose is good for the gander....give him a dose of his own medicine. Totally ignore him. Answer in short answers. Yes. No. Maybe. Leave when he gets home and tell him to find something in the fridge....then when he asks about what is going on.....tell him see how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot. Wahla....conversation begins. Good luck
2006-10-16 00:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to find out what the problem is, if there is one. Has your relationship always been like this? And if not, when did you notice the change? Maybe you are blowing things out of proportion. Sometimes people need a little space from one another. Then again, maybe his interests have changed. Does he love you? Have you all talked it out? The relationship will never work without communication.
2006-10-16 00:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to give him reason....dress yourself,even if not going anywhere. Take little trips to anywhere, just be gone. Ask him to join you sometimes...if he says no...just go...but let him know you'll be back shortly. Call friends when he ignores you,talk about things that make you laugh. He will start to wonder why you are different now. If he asked...then let him know. You are lonely, you need him, and he isn't around when you do. So you just figured you make and meet some friends for something to do. When you come back from where ever you go...tell him you wish he were there. Sometimes he needs space...like us. There may be other things on his mind....not a women...but could be financial,work, anything...you know even before going off on your charade....just give him a kiss on the head...and let him know that 'If there is anything he may ever need from you...you are there'.
2006-10-16 00:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask someone who knows both of you well to evaluate the two of you. You need to know why it hasn't worked out. See if there are things that you can change about yourself. You may have to lose weight, cut your hair, change your style of dress, etc.
Find out who he loves or has loved. Find out if you're anything like those people. See if you can become anything like them.
Find out why you're in love with him. I mean, what is it about you that cause you to love him. What does he do for you? When you understand yourself, it will be easier to think clearly around him. Try to reduce your love for him so that you can focus on yourself.
You have to do activities that you both find interesting. See what activities you have in common and spend time becoming good at them. Try to become good friends with his friends.
This is a very hard. I tried this once and it worked and I got her. Then 6 months later, I learned why she could never love me as much as I loved her. It was something I couldn't change about myself. She basically wanted someone I could never be. It took years to get over her. So be careful what you wish for ... They say it is better to have loved and lost. I agree but it can be painful either way.
2006-10-16 00:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by swframe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably paying attention to your friend then. Guys pay attention to things they like. I would move on if I was you. He prob is not worth it any way.
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2006-10-16 00:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Scotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start getting your attention from someone else. Not like having sex or cheating on him but just someone who appreciates your company. Hopefully this will get his damn attention and he'll realize he doesnt want to lose you over something such as not giving you what you should be given.
2006-10-16 00:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 options...
the first one is to talk to him about it, tell him i know u love me but i dont feel it,,, plz do some effort to make me feel it
ur not payin me any attention and its hurtin me, if there's something wrong plz let me know....
the 2nd one is to make him feel that u wont b there for him forever!
maybe he's not payin attention cuz he's sure u love him, and whatever he does ull always b there!
dont call him but when he calls b nice to him
when he asks to c u tonight for ex tell him that u have other plans but u can c him tom.....
understnd? make him feel that he's not ur life! he's part of it
and when he understands that, he'll realize that its possible to lose u, and he's gonna do his best to win u bak
good luck
2006-10-16 00:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't pay attention to you.Maybe he doesn't realize he is being that way.If he doesn't plan to make an effort, find a man that will pay attention to you.
2006-10-16 00:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and work things out. Love always finds a way. Even if its a bad one
2006-10-16 00:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋