Met this girl last month and we've been slowly spending more time together & talking on the phone more. She goes out of her way to park infront of my place, walk her dog by my place etc, just about everyday. We've hung out a few times, and had humorous,intelligent,and personal conversations. All these signs point to "She's Interested", although I can't explicitly gauge if she want's to be persued. Why do I question this you ask? Because #1 she broke up w/ her fiance of 5yrs 10mo's ago, was "semi-dating" a "good-friend" who recently went off to Iraq after he left had a blow out on the phn 2 wks ago. she tries to discuss them w/ me periodically. I don't want to discuss them by anymeans if i can help it, but I do want be respectfull of her and show a bit of interest for her sake,but i'm tryin now. Then she invites me up that night to watch a horror movie together (i think, ok, I'm in), but she's on the otherside of the sofa w/ the dog between us. I like her alot, but do I step it up?
2006-10-15 17:25:43 · 7 answers · asked by Lof82Bmore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she has some issues right now that she dealing with, and although it may seem she interested in you, she might just really need a friend right now, and that could be a good thing in the long run but take it easy with her if you really like her, so she can figure out herself and then she will look at the big picture and see that you have been there for her. And things will come together for you.
2006-10-15 17:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's interested in you, she's just a little scared right now. She probably knows she needs a little time to get over the issues from the last relationships before she starts something new. She is probably doing the friend thing also to get to know you better and see if there could be something there. Give her some more time. Maybe another month? If she doens't do anything by then, say something to her.
2006-10-16 00:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide from her but don't make yourself too available, either. She may just be looking for companionship right now, and you don't want to be the friend to get her through this. Just keep yourself occupied until she's a little more clear with what she's after from you. It's stupid, but so many people fall into that whole "I want it b/c I can't have it" syndrome.
2006-10-16 00:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been a month. id say, keep doing what you are until she opens up more to you. if she sees youre patient with her then she'll take it as a sign that you respect her and care about her. dont take things up a step yet. wait til she is ready to come to you.
2006-10-16 00:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? It is obvious that she like you or else she wouldn't be going out of her way to be with you. Stop second guessing yourself and step it up!
2006-10-16 00:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to get her dog alone and ask him.. He would know for sure. We women tell our dogs everything!
2006-10-16 00:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Star 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-10-16 00:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋