Do American white girls ever consider quiet Hispanics??

Question

I'm not in college i'm 26, but whe n i go around town what i notice is that the american girls of college age i see are so talkative and outgoing, it's hard to imagine they would ever like me. More over i wonder if when they think of dates they ever consider guys outside their race or people like me who are quiet, hispanic first generation american who is not assimilated into american culture as much as others( For example: In my house we speak spanish, i don't do what typical americans call "hang out" or "going out at night", i don't do anything of what typical white families do...i never dated, i never had friends,,.. i don't and never have gone to any crazy parties( like in college), etc.. i just don't fit in in the typcal american culture ). I dont eevn fit into mexican culture either cause i'm a shy hispanic and that's not typical.

Well anyways, i often listen to these talkative girls in the bus or downtown, and they always talk about guys like "All guys are...." "Guys are just.

Answer 1

I'm dating a half Hispanic half white. So, yeah white girls do consider dating Hispanics. But for us, it's the opposite, he is the outgoing one and I'm the really shy one. It wouldn't have bothered me if he was shy and quiet. But, he doesn't go out and party either. Neither one of us are interested in that. I do wish you good luck on finding someone who suits you perfectly. If you like a girl and you think she's interested in you, go ahead and ask her out whether she's talkative or not.

Answer 2

I cant speak for americans but I can tell you that Australian girls would love a nice quiet guy. its only flashy girls that like to be seen with the flashy guys because they think they make each other look better. Very shallow!!!
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Answer 3

i think hispanics are gorgeous the tan skin and the dialect oh hells to the ya. a girl has 2 b dumb not bein attracted to that. Plus there is somethin about the hispanic family- i guess the tradition that really captures anyone to the culture. Plus now with the whole reggeaton scene expandin hispanic culture is gainin more and more publicity and makin them more and more known.

Answer 4

With all the blazing hawt latinas I see at the local college, why would you really care. If I was 20ish again I would gladly trade you 2 vapid valley girl white chicks for a Jessica Alba Latina chick. I guarentee that after about 3 weeks you would realize you got the raw end of the stick.

Answer 5

Of course they do! Now, I'm sure you do have some friends now, and I like a guy that can be mature and responsible yet have fun as well, such as laughing and joking around and liking to have a good time. You sound really nice and yes, any American or rather any GIRL would be lucky to date you.

Answer 6

don't be shy

I know it must be hard, but hey I was shy once. But then, after reading some books on philosophy and even life itself I realized that there is no reason to be shy.
You gotta live your life the way you want it, if a girl rejects you, it might be embarrasing but that's about it, you'll go on with your life. Enjoy your life, make friends, talk to girls otherwise they don't know you like them. they are shy too (at least some).
My philosophy is that life is too short, who knows if we will be here tomorrow so why waste time being shy and not doing things that we might regret afterwards. That's whta life is all about, living, otherwise you are just sucking air and releasing carbon dioxide.

Answer 7

Dude you write better than most people who post a question here. You should go to college, if not anything else but to find out if these girls will date you. Start out at the local community college and then transfer into another local college

Answer 8

I suspect that most college-age girls are rather cosmopolitan, and would consider dating outside their race/ethnic group, if they met someone who intrigued them. But you'll never know; you are too shy to ask!

I think that you should see a counselor who could help you out of your shy shell. There is too much life to enjoy, and you have so little time left in which to do it!

Answer 9

it depends on where you're looking for a girl. as for me, i guess im a little shy too b/c i don't really go out around town a whole lot (i do sometimes), and i'm not really that talkative. i would consider dating a quiet hispanic guy if he was friendly and sweet and if we got along well.

Answer 10

Opposites Attract!