I always thought i was but whenever we talk about it at school all the guys say they aren't one anymore
2006-10-15 17:23:09 · 44 answers · asked by bkern 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy. we talk about it at school all the time and all the others say they aren't one anymore
2006-10-15 17:25:23 · update #1
haha, dont worry bout it dude. you will find at that age that alot of guys lie bout that, to sound cool. i lost it when i was 18, in college. its no biggie. girls tend to lose it earlier then guys at around 16 -17 cos they normally date older guys, but guys nomally loose it round 17-18.
2006-10-15 17:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until i was 21. Of course I lied about it until then. To be honest, I think alot of guys lie about it. So all the guys at school that say they aren't virgins anymore, I'd say 60-75% still are. So don't sweat it.
I'll tell you whats not normal though. HIV, AIDS, Herpes, gonnorhea, syphilis, HPV, crabs. I'd rather be a virgin until I was 50 than catch some sh*t like that. No lie.
Oh, and might I add that I'm 25 now and still dating the girl that popped my cherry. 4 yrs is a long time. Could turn into forever, which would be cool. But best not to rush things. ;-)
2006-10-15 17:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by three6ty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES it's very OK to be a virgin at 17. And I'm a guy, I know. And those guys saying they aren't virgins are LYING. LYING. LYING. And not being a virgin doesn't make you cool anyway! There are a lot of UGLY people who aren't virgins...but that doesn't make them any better looking.
Moral of the story:
Wait until you're ready.
2006-10-15 17:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by John S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is okay to be a virgin at 17. you need to wait until you can find someone that you are really in love with and then you need to have sex, but if you feel ready before then go ahead but don't rush into anything that you don't want to do just because you are a guy. Most guys lie about not being virgins, because they want to look cool in front of the boys, but they know better and they want to keep it for some special lady like you need to do..
2006-10-15 17:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is better than okay to still be a virgin at 17 or 20. Wait until your married. Or at least engaged. Virginity is something not to be lost but to be shared with someone that you love. Seriously, if you rush into 'losing it' chances are your first time will suck and you may even regret it.
2006-10-15 17:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin and lots of good things about being one. 1-you don't have to worry about getting pregnant and taking care of a baby when you're a teenager. 2-you don't have any regrets of giving it up to some jerk. 3-you don't have emotional scars. 4-no std's to worry about 5-you don't have to worry and pray that your period will come this month 6-believe it or not, most people are jealous of you that you had the will and respect to wait. They will probably make fun of you to try to make you think different, but they are really wishing they waited instead. I waited till I was in my late 20's and I'm so glad I did. : )
2006-10-15 17:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's not just ok - it's awesome. I have to say that one of my greatest regrets is not waiting for my husband. The love and connection that I feel with him is nothing I'd ever known before. Giving him that gift - not just my virginity, but he's free of the fear that I'm comparing him to past lovers - would have made my wedding night amazing. He said the same thing. As a matter of fact he was the first to say he wished he had waited for me.
Have patience. Your wedding night will be amazing - and all the guys at school have lost that completely now. And with girls that the'll soon forget as they get older. It's not worth it.
2006-10-15 17:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Stella Bing 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok to be a virgin. Trust me not all the guys are telling you the truth. Besides it take a lot more integrity to abstain then to fall into the traps of peer pressure. You would not jump off a bridge just because all of them said they did would you? I would have to see it for myself or at the very least have one of them jump off with me( I figure if they are willing to jump off with me it probably is not as dagerous as thought). So why would you have sex just because your peers say they have. I am 26 and have not had sex yet I am waiting until I am married to enjoy this pleasure. This is good for two reasons. First because God commands us to. Second because you never have to worry about having an unwanted child.
2006-10-15 17:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its ok just wait for the right guy and if any guys or girls come up to u an make fun of u to a boy u would say thank god im not the slut who did u and to a girl at least im not a slut like u.
2006-10-15 17:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by I'm bringin sexy back! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES!! I repeat YES!! it is ok to still be a virgin at age 17. NEVER EVER have sex until you are 110% ready. Don't worry about what the guys at school are saying rest assured some of them are lying their asses off.
2006-10-15 17:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's okay, in fact, it's encouraged! Stay that way until you get married. The guys that brag about losing the big V at school may not be telling the truth.
Stick to your guns and don't give in to peer pressure. What's always popular isn't always right and what's right isn't always popular.
2006-10-15 17:25:47 · answer #11 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋