Japanese and Asians make me sad but Cousin shoves the topic to my face..how to deal?

Question

As a shy person i became disillusioned by japanese and chinese and asians that come to usa to study or visit.. they discriminated me when i tried to be friends..it was in my College years, and i have a big scar from that. But my cousin who just came from mexico 1 year ago, and is in night english class meets chinese, japanese, and other foreigners always and then he is such a gossip person that everything he does and sees he has to tell eveeryone at home in a loud voice. Then he's saying he met this japanese person and that she's teaching him japanese and then he starts talking what he was taught and i just don't want to hear it.. I hate it.. he makes it like i'm going to be happy about it or impressed.. I don't ever want to hear anything about his life and friends with foreign students cause for example: i studied japanese for a long time, and do i have any friends? NO! and the more he talks about it.. the sadder more depressed i become. But what can i do.. if he is such a loud mouth

Answer 1

It seems to me that you are holding a grudge over a whole race of people because you got 'dissed' by a few at school....

another word for that is racist.

Learn to let go and get on with life. People are people and it doesnt matter what colour or eye shape they may have.

Answer 2

friends don't only come in Japanese and chinese...i don't understand why it's a scar in your life if they refused to befriend you...that in it's self tell me...you are a bit different. You went to school with students that wanted to study and that was it. The night school is a whole different thing...That is a mix diversity of people...and other than set there late at night...people have more freedom to speak and talk to each other. If he has fun with his Japanese and chinese friends...so be it...Asains people aren't the only friends you can have. But what really gets me is that after all these years...you still carry that around.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

First I want to say that I am neither Japanese or Asain. People mostly like to be with their own types of people. I grew up in Cleveland and we had an Italian , Jewish, Polish, Asian etc etc areas, San Fransisco and New York has ChinaTown so what. I know it is politically coirrect to say we are all Americans but still we have our own unique customs and traditions, These people were not agaiinst you, they felt better with their own language and customs, Get over it, not everyone wants to be your friend

Answer 5

If you are Mexican, please return home.

We have a lot of Americans who need work in the north.

Americans like Asians because they are extremely hard working and intelligent.

Asian countries keep their own ignorant and lazy in their own house, and likewise should Mexico. The Mexicans are stealing the jobs our own poor would do. Asians have evidence to hate you because they know so many, so much more poor than Mexicans who are not being able to come to America and never will because you and your kind are swarming all over this country.

Please go back home and contribute there if you have anything to give.

Answer 6

Not all Japanese and Asians are the same. Why don't you get out of the house, take a few new courses yourself and try again to make friends?

Then come back and let us know how it goes.

Answer 7

take it easy for starters. your cousin sounds like a great person who is excited about life and all the people he meets. u need to either go to a different room or get some antidepressants and chill

Answer 8

i think that you should try to overcome whatever problem it is that you have with thesee people, and i don't mean to be rude, but i think that to many people here you are coming off a a very rude person. you are judging a group of people by just a few examples. it is not your cousins fault, it is yours for thinking that everyone of tthat race is like that.

Answer 9

Jealousy will give you anger or depression or both.

Answer 10

You are a very bitter person...