I accidentally hit my GF. . .?

Question

I backhanded my GF, it really was an accident, I didn't see her there,
It wasn't very hard, but she beat me up pretty bad for doing it.
I kept apologizing, but she showed no mercy and now I've got bruises all over me, I'm not sure what to do about it, how do I make it up to her?
She locked me in the basement for two days, then she finally let me out,
But she's still mad at me.
What do I do?

Answer 1

Thank her profusely for not having your pants about your ankles with you strapped face forward over a barrel wearing a ball gag in your mouth for her other male friends to enjoy...LOL...

Answer 2

You should NEVER Hit A woman...................But that doesn't mean you can't shake the sh*t out of them!

but for real, If your not pissed that you were locked down in a basement for two days then you deserved it, because you obviously felt wrong in some way, shape or form.

If it seriously was an accident, then I would say your g/f needs some serious help, b/c people just don't lock you up, and if it was a light tap or what not it shouldn't have bothered her. Although, if you two are having issues in your relationship this could have been her breaking point, in which you should consider liveing with some friends for a few weeks untill you communicate both of your perspectives to one another and settle on common ground. This time away will not only clear the fog, it can do a few things to help the both of you understand each other better:
#1.) Absence "May" make the heart grow fonder. (if it doesn't you shouldn't chase it, b/c ultimately you will be unhappy. if it does you now know that you have a meaningfull relationship and wouldn't want to jepordize it again.
#2.) It gives you time to re-aclimate as an individual. What I mean is, sometimes you can lose who you really are in a relationship by settling to often. Having your time can & will recharge you in many different ways.
#3.) If you get out now, and she really is a freak that could endup in cell block 6, then you already have a great headstart!

Hope it works out.

Answer 3

Personally, you've done all you can. You have apologized (sincerly, I'm guessing), and tried to make it up to her. My BF hit me once on accident while I was standing behind him and I got mad, but it honestly seems that your GF is taking her anger in a new direction.

I would give her space for awhile, just to be safe. Just let her breathe and she may calm down.

Answer 4

well i think she might have over reacted about it but i think you saying sorry was good enough and the fact that she locked you in the basement should be punishment enough and she hit you back then she should be over it if not then tell her theres nothing more to do so if this is going to get in the way of your relationship and she cant get over it then just leave

Answer 5

If this is a serious question, then what you really need to do is get out of the relationship right NOW. It's not good for either of you. And NEVER hit a woman again. Write that down.

Answer 6

You both need to get a life and stop seeing each other. But you do have a talent for a good story. People like you provide good comedy for answers.

Hahahaha, Seriously though once you are finished with your comedy head over to LavaLife, simply the best dating site around.

Answer 7

IF it truly was an accident, and you have apologized and she still won't forgive you, LET IT GO. You need to move on. I know it is easier said than done, but what more can you do? She has punished you and still is. The choice is yours.

Answer 8

hitting is nearly violation that still ruins courting and no female needed that to ensue no matter if that's unintended. you need to vow and propose it once you're saying you gained't do it back. because once you do it back she would no longer coming back. i do not see any reason you need to hit a woman you want? distinctly basically because of she's no longer cleansing. be affected man or woman and don't be too impulsive. it may help if u practice dinner for her.

Answer 9

she sounds abbusive. It's not fair for you. I think you just need to go on, and soon she'll figure out that it was an accident if it truly was. But she's just trying to get some sympathy or something out of you. Don't stoop down, she'll get over it.

Answer 10

Just ignore it, it was an accident. If she is too exagerrated about it, then just ignore her, she will come around. Turn it around on her and act hurt that she doesn't believe it was an accident then act like the victim, lol.