2006-10-15 17:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D.J., you already got 10 answers to the same question a couple of days ago. You apparently didn't like any of them. So, here is number 11:
Unless your normal actions are that of an uninvolved human being, you act as you normally do but "note" that this girl "likes me." What do you want to do about it? Are you hunting for a girlfriend who you can practice the art of taking the lead - men are supposed to take that role - and ask questions to get to know her better? Or are you on the prowl, wanting to strike the first "like" you come across and lay waste to her self respect as you nail her right then and there? Perhaps you are pleased that this girl "likes" you but you are not sure that you "like" her in return to the degree that she digs you - and you don't know how to act. Well, you show respect and when you come together, talk with her the way you would normally talk and she will move on, romantically speaking. If she corners you and says she like you, like "WOW," and you don't feel that way, tell her honestly that you are honored that she would rate you so highly but you are too involved in family, school, work and other responsibilities to "go" with anyone at this time. Then, move on and see where the next "like" will come from. Always be upfront, fair and express gratitude. Your reputation will thereafter precede you.
2006-10-15 17:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he thinks of her. If I found out some girl liked me and I liked her I'd start shooting for higher scores in our relationship. If I found out that a girl who I didn't care for was attracted to me I would feel more obligated to avoid her. If I felt indifferent towards someone I'd see where it goes until I get a feel for what that person is like on a different level. Also, If I'm involved with someone and I find out another girl likes me, I stay the hell away from them because the last thing any guy wants/needs is a GF who thinks he's cheating on her. So yeah, there's all sorts of stuff involved and the question is a little vague. Plus I'm only one guy hiding in the corner of a sociolgical structure I only somewhat comprehend.
2006-10-16 00:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok since I'ma guy I think I know how he acts when he founds out a girl likes him.
1. Immature/ doesn't like girl: He will ignore her or treat her like crap and start telling everyone that she likes him.
2. Immature/ likes girl: He will express much happiness and act superior to the girl.
3. Mature/ doesn't like girl: He will be quiet about it and be nice to the girl but keep his distance until she gets over him.
4. Mature/ likes girl: He will be happy but won't express much and will talk to the girl more even if he is shy cause he has the confidence of assurance that the girl likes him. Also he will ask the girl out usually.
2006-10-16 00:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by N/a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his age, his maturity level, his fear of girls, his denial level, and his wish list. This may be part of the aforementioned, but his ability to communicate is critical as well.
2006-10-16 00:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol I'd like to know the same thing..
2006-10-16 00:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by LalaLola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋