So in my dreams latley i've been getting raped by a "certain person". People say that since it's the same person that i WANT to get raped by that person? Is this true because their about 14 years older than me and it's totally wrong. Do i want to get raped by this person? Do i like this person? Help me out here
2006-10-15 17:01:19 · 17 answers · asked by Loverrr girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best to see a counselor for a few sessions and see how it goes.
2006-10-15 17:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a professional but I will give you my opinion. I don't think you want to get raped by the person. I think you are sexually attracted to the person and due the age difference you repress your feelings. You probably have an idea thet it is wrong to like someone that much older. Wrong sex is often rape. So in your mind you create a rape scene when what you ultimately want is a love scene. You probably have a lot of mixed feelings on the situation, but I don't think anybody really wants to be raped. Maybe in a perverse role playing game but not for real. If you are over 18 and he is over 18 and you both want to do it then it is not rape. So if that is the situation just go get ya some!
2006-10-15 17:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think you want to be rape. Cause no one want that. But i really don't know exactly whats is going on in your life to trigger something like that. Are you losing sleep over that. Did you ask the Lord to help you and put a bible under your pillow at night. That always do the trick for me. You can not control your dreams. And don't let the dreams control you. If you are not wanting these dreams happening to you. I can tell who is causing your rape dreams. Ask your self . What kind of people rapes. --------Who puts bad thoughts in your head. My answer would point to the devil. He puts alot of bad thoughts. Since you don't want these dreams . He is the source that is causing your rape dreams. So put a bible under your pillow. And see if that helps you. I sure hope it does . I couldn't imagine what you are going threw. You have my deepest symphony.
2006-10-15 17:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that rape is not something that anyone really wants to happen to them. It's a terrible thing, and it causes deep physical and emotional problems. I think that this dream is happening because you fear this person. Or, if you believe in something like this, it could be a warning. It may be warning something that the rape symbolizes or maybe just rape. I suggest telling someone protective of you just in case. However, I think it's just that you really don't like this person and that you really fear them deep inside.
2006-10-15 17:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by dropdeadchicken28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dreams are a way of given us the underlying meaning of things. I dont think you want to be raped by this person, but maybe you have some unfinished business or there is something about this person that is frightning to you. You should talk to a dream specialist.
2006-10-15 17:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by shelby_kay_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should ask your self. do you like this person? do you have any kind of feelings for this person? and if yes, what kind? did you ever had the desire to get raped by someone? would you ever want to have sexual contact with this person who rapes you in your dream? and then connect all your answers and find out. i dont think anyone is able to answer if you like this person or not this has to do with you. you have to find out about whats goin on inside you. if you like him or not is not an external superpower, is something that you can control or at least something that you are the only one to know about it. keep us posted...good luck
2006-10-15 17:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by behonest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are not "wish fulfillments" or fantasies, necessarily. Others represent actual fears or misgivings. If it feels wrong in the actual world, don't invite it. And who would want to be raped anyway?
It might be more symbolic.....like perhaps this person has something to offer you that you may not wish to have?
2006-10-15 17:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really want to be raped at all. Maybe you're just curious about being with that person but feel like it's so unlikely because of the age difference. Or maybe you're just afraid of them.
2006-10-15 17:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...obviiusly if u wonder if u want to get raped then you probably do, which then it wouldnt be considered rape. because u would be willing. YOU must have thought of you and that person sexually because of something these dreams developed. i mean was it rape, or was it pleasure?
2006-10-15 17:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyDUh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily "raped" by this person.
But if you are sexually attracted to this person, this might
be initiating the dreams.
Most females fantasize about being raped....but it is just
that.....a fantasy. Noone wants to be raped.
2006-10-15 17:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a lustfull dream,silly dreams never come true.you are smart girl,in the end,you will know what to do,remember its not what you want it but how you want it,by the way sexual dreams are very common in human dreams,
2006-10-15 17:07:17 · answer #11 · answered by lexus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋