I was (and still am) so incredibly in love with this guy and he led me to believe he felt the same way then all of a sudden (and rather coldly) he broke it off stating that it was not me but it was the distance between us and that it was too hard for him to be so far away from me so much of the time. We only live 2 hrs about but with our work schedules it's almost impossible to get anytime together. Any truth to this or did he just feed me the big daddy of all lines?
2006-10-15 16:51:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there might actually be some truth to what he was saying. have you ever thought of that? 2 hours distance? thats would be like 4 hours up and back. and not seeing you often could be a problem. for guys to feel like they are in a relationship, they need to feel that physical aspect.
so to answer your question i would say he wasnt playing you. circumstances are just working against you two and he has admitted that.
2006-10-15 16:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi, big daddy recipient. You are not in love with this guy, you are still hanging onto that romantic dream trance you dissolved into when you first gazed into his gorgeous eyes and imagined - key word there - the fun and naked fun you will have as you set about making a zillion babies. Because you were not conscious much of the time you were with him you did not pick up on the obvious: He was noncommital, vague, indecisive and never really answered a question about your relationship except to leave you a parcel of hope. So, it seemed abrupt to you but he probably feels he was fair all along, you just weren't that into him. Love will always find a way. Like will not.
2006-10-15 16:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he broke it off coldly then it is most likely that he just used the distance and work schedules as an excuse and wanted to break up for another reason.
If he cared and honestly believed that it was distance then he would have broken it off more delicately.
2006-10-15 16:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Riza M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a rather big load to me. 2 HOURS come on people travel to the ends of the earth and back for love. I just can't see 2 hours and a hectic schedule keeping someone from the person they truely love. Sorry
2006-10-15 16:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by mark m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have had the same thing happen to me in a way. I loved this girl but she lived in Michigan and I live in Nebraska. We both loved eachother very much, but the distance is what was our problem. I think that he really was telling the truth. Beleive me
2006-10-15 16:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-13 09:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a little of both. I'm thinking he might have met someone else. Also, he might just be 'moody' or have been tired when he said it. Give it awhile. If you don't hear from him then, (I know, easy for me to say but, here it is) move on. I'm sorry and I hope things get better for you. I know what you are going through. Been there, done that.
2006-10-15 16:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I won't say that's THE big daddy of all lines, but it sure as hell is one of em. This is harsh, but honey, if he really loved u, he would've damn well made the effort to spend time with u. He's not worth ur suffering...so plz get over him and move on. Tcare.
2006-10-15 16:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people can't do long distance so am sure there is some truth to it. I would do yourself a favor and find a way to get over it.
2006-10-15 16:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by __Shele 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just might be telling the truth, 2 hours is a bit of a road trip. Get over him and dont sweat it
2006-10-15 16:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋