I am my b/f first g/f, and he seems pretty shy sometimes. He had some social problems previously at school and it seems that it really affected his self confidence and just his social level. I don't know how to get him talking more to me. Please help.. any advice?
2006-10-15 16:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes probably tense and horny. Fool around with him and stuff. If he can relax in bed and fool around with you he can talk to you too. Some people have real large problems when it comes to the opposite sex and stuff like that. They just get to scared. Good luck.
2006-10-15 16:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough call since some people are just NOT comfortable talking.
Try to find out what he likes to do and get him to talk about that.
2006-10-15 23:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience! He'll open up but it will take time..He's just a little shy..Maybe he just don't trust you all that well yet..It takes some longer than others but if you really care for him just be patient..
2006-10-15 23:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get him interested in things that he likes. and if you dont know what they are, look for something that he will totally love and he will forget about his shyness. or just talk to him and make him feel safe, spend more time with him . the more time you spend with him the more you too will be better and he will lose his shyness. just try it.
2006-10-15 23:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by metalchik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him, ask him stuff, casual conversation.
just don't make a subject out of his silence. if you make a big deal over the fact that he dosn't talk, he will dwell on that and talk even less.
2006-10-15 23:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by sobrien 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try listening! you might find out what he is interested in.
2006-10-15 23:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sex some people talk alot after sex
2006-10-15 23:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
new?
2006-10-15 23:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by freakybhabhie28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋