i have a gf that many dont find attractive. i like her a lot and i find her attractive, not in an OMG way but i do.
i feel like at the moment i am completely into her, and she is quickly falling. when i think of the future i can see her in it. do you guys think her physical qualities will become a problem for me in the future? what would u do?
2006-10-15 16:43:25 · 17 answers · asked by shhh! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...First of all, are you "Sally?" Because if you are, you have more to worry about than her size my dear. Why does it matter what someone's size is anyway? You MUST be a guy to ask such a question, because, as women, when our men get bald,fat and big nosed, we love them because they are THEM, not according to the damn SCALE!
Geeeeez! Some people's idiotic friggen ideas of love are really ignorant aren't they???
2006-10-15 16:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you have a relationship where you don't care what the other person looks like. If you're happy, that's all that matters. Although honestly you have to consider that the fact that she has a girlfriend may cause her to "let herself go" - by that I mean she could adopt the "Since I have someone, I don't have to worry about personal hygiene or anything else"-mentality, where she won't care about her weight and her looks or cleanliness, and maybe even stop being motivated.
If you don't think she'll have that problem, then be happy. If you see her start to slip, have a talk about it. If you don't, she'll just keep thinking it's okay, and then it may start to bother you, but possibly not. You sound like a great and very mature person to be in a relationship.
2006-10-15 16:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry yourself too much about what other people think about your gf... YOU are dating her not them so your opinion is the only one that matters. Also say you guys date for a long time, do you think any of these people that don;t find her attractive are still gonna be around anyways? See my point? Go with your gut, if you like her that's all that matters. Don't let other people tell you what is and isn't beautiful... we all have different taste.
2006-10-15 16:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Just your average guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million. Being overweight =/= unattractive. yet i wager splendor is in the interest of the beholder. i have seen truly some warm women that had some more advantageous weight on them. 2. warm human beings attraction to all styles of persons. that doesn't say something adverse about them.
2016-12-04 21:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for your friend . Then the weight shouldn't be a problem. The way its you love her for who she is on the inside . If I was you I wouldn't care what anybody thought about your friend. If your friends are telling you that she isn't attractive then they wasn't your friends to begin with. Life is to short to worry about what others might think. Just enjoy your life with your friend. Just think about what I said. Are they your friend. Is friends suppose to mean and cruel. No I don't think so . Just ditch your other friends. If they don't like her then they don't like you. Hang out with friends that are not cruel. I do not like cruel people. You don't get anywhere by being mean to someone don't you agree.
2006-10-15 16:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your girlfriend, her looks won't be a problem. Besides, if she's attractive to you, why should it matter what other people think of her? (Of course, if she becomes morbidly obese, you might want to advise her to tone it down a little — it's for her own good, of course.)
2006-10-15 16:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, you obviously think she is attractive. You sound a little hard on her. How can her being overweight be an issue? Grow up.
2006-10-15 16:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Curious! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that. why? if you like her now what is stopping you in the future from doing so. unless she is really obese and that becomes a problem, but other than that, i dont think that there could be a problem as long as you like her and she likes you.
2006-10-15 16:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her alot. Stay with her. Its not always whats on the outside. The most important thing is on the inside. It doesnt matter if shes ugly or fat or whatever. If her personality and everything on the inside is beautiful..It doesnt matter whats on the outside. Stay with her if u really like her. And who cares what other people think.
2006-10-15 16:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lots of cute people lose their cuteness after time, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and in the heart
2006-10-15 16:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋