You know how at first when you first start going out with someone you get the butterflies everytime you see them? Well as time goes by, do you ever get tired of your bf/gf? I was thinking of starting a serious relationship with this boy until we get married and right now we're 14. Do you think it will last till marriage?
2006-10-15 16:40:16 · 15 answers · asked by Rosebud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-15 16:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by chuco 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sure the honeymoon stage varies in all relationships. But once it has pasted then the real work begins. I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and can honestly say that I enjoy every second that we spend together still, and hopefully for eternity. However, I am quite a bit older than you and hopefully a lot more mature. At 14 you will break a lot of hearts yet throughout your life and the sad fact is that you'll probably have your broken more than once also. So do I think it will last until you marry, honestly no I do not. I think that you two will be like so many other teens and fall for each other but someone will come along and the grass will look greener and someone will say goodbye. But use this as a learning experience and all relationships that you'll be involved in as such.
2006-10-15 16:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that the better friends you are before the relationship gets serious, the more likely the relationship is to last to marriage. The key components to making a relationship work are communication, honesty, understanding, and respect, and if you have that in friendship, then it can continue along with adding the romance, spontaneity, and physical attributes of a serious relationship. The stronger the friendship ties the more likely the relationship will last. I think people get bored of their significant others when they stop trying, and some couples get physical too soon. You both have to be prepared to contribute equally to the relationship to make it work.
2006-10-15 16:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by ChrisLM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun, love isn't lost in a 2d. it is lost over the years in case you enable it flow. I were given married very youthful at 18. we were married for 39 years. Are we satisfied? i don't think of we are. Why can we stay ? i do not comprehend that both. perhaps this is the concern of the unknown. human beings improve aside. human beings replace and want diverse issues from one yet another or from life. i comprehend that love can damage. you want someone and they don't love you decrease back. or you loose someone you want very a lot. I lost a son. The discomfort replaced into insufferable. It nevertheless hurts and no you will be able to inform me that element heals. because time hasn't started to heal the discomfort from loosing my son.
2016-12-04 21:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am 12 and i am in the same situation. i do see were u r coming from. i have a boyfriend and i do get tired of him sometimes. i want to start a serious relationship with him too and i hope it lasts for a long time, but we can't see what the future is for us. so the only thing that we can do is question. i do have an answer but it might seem stupid, but if u r in love it will probably will last until marrige or longer and hopefully it will. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 16:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Makayla G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you're 14 ? umm, Naw, you should not be getting serious with anyone just yet. I'm not talking down to you, just looking back with experience. You're just getting started & life still has an awful lot to bring to you. Be patient & enjoy the ride best you can.
2006-10-15 16:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way. Think of how many people you're going to meet in your life. Why would you want to limit yourself to one person now? Give yourself some time to experience life before you decide to devote yourself to one person. Wait until you're 21 to get married. If he/she's still around then... you'll know they are the one.
2006-10-15 16:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Michael D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, this relationship will not last until you are old enough to marry.
Why settle down to one guy at your young age. Date other guys NOT SLEEP WITH THEM . date a lot of them until you find the right one. once you do find the right one you won't tire of him
2006-10-15 16:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i been with my bf 5 yrs and im movinginto my brand new studio apt in vegas yes he has an anoying mouth so i think living seperatelly for a while will make both of us stress less and who knows i might meet a sexy guy in my new place hehehe
2006-10-15 16:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Odds are against you having this last until marriage
2006-10-15 16:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
honestly....... life changes immensely after you turn 18 and stuff. people go off to college and start growing up and everything changes. you probably won't even like this guy by then.
2006-10-15 16:44:44 · answer #11 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋