So my cousin really likes this guy that I introduced her too. They are good friends and have a LOT in common. He knows that she likes him because I told him that, but also to pretend like he didn't know (my cuz knows that I told him, he just doesn't know that). Also my cuz is super shy but seems to get along with him fairly well, she just doesn't want to tell him herself that she likes him because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. And he just wants to be friends. Does anyone have any GOOD advice for this?
2006-10-15 16:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Brandy N 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe he just said that cause he like's her.
2006-10-15 16:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin needs to be able to share and communicate her feelings. Although the guy may not like her, she needs to learn that sometimes you have to take chances in life and go through with something that you're afraid to do. Even though it may not always turn out the way you hoped at least you won't spend the rest of your life wondering what could of been. You just sit on the sideline and watch her go out there and speak your mind. After you can console her and support her in her decision.
2006-10-15 23:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to talk to him about her feelings and they should talk and that should help alot. You dont want something bad to happen out of this. Its better to just tell the feelings for someone and find out if they like u the same way or not. it all works out in the end
2006-10-15 23:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - leave them alone and let them work things out for themselves. Communication is the most important part of any relationship if it doesn't come naturally, there is trouble ahead.
2006-10-15 23:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to be the match maker. "LET IT DO WHAT IT DO BABY"
If he wanted to date her he would. If he doesn't then Y would U go and try to figure out another way, their is no other way.
The only thing U R going to figure out is how to get her feelings hurt.
U cant make the man go out with her.
She will not pull every man she wants in life, its best that she learn that now(don't be desperate)
2006-10-15 23:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by dctrod225 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is not much u can really do for her jus be there for them and support them maybe even take them out to get there mind of of them just have fun
2006-10-15 23:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by lilmiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be herself
2006-10-15 23:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by robert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋