my sons ex girlfriend stoled two thousand dollars worth of things from the walmart and other stores and the judge has it as receiving stolen property.she got 5years probation and $1490 restitution and my son has had custody of there 2 children for over 5 years because of her on drugs and more drugs doctors have put her on because she was seeing thing that weren't there and assault against her mother and she tried several times to kill herself in front of my grandchildren and now my son was arrested for assault against his girlfriend he has now while he was in jail for those 2 days i took my grandkids and an officer and the kids mother came and got them from me with court papers that she had lied on and said she and the kids seen everthing and my sons girlfriend said no she wasn't there and it wasn't that bad of fight between them so now the judge gives my grandchild right back to someone unstable and takes them away from me.
2006-10-15 16:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by georgie girl 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
See an attorney first thing in the morning. Especially before she has a chance to leave the state or hurt the children.
The attorney will advise you on what can be done. Maybe an emergency order from a different judge can be done to at least get the children back with you or in child social services.
Yes I know child social services has issues as well but better with them in foster care than with their mom.
Good Luck and I will pray for all of you. Hopefully she can get help before she hurts herself or anyone else.
2006-10-15 16:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by pj_gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File a grievance, and request a formal inquiry. You may obtain the form right from the court clerk's office.
Your state's website should have a judicial section regarding the procedure to follow, and even the code of conduct. You should review it, as you may find more concerns for your request.
You swear the statement, send it certified, and wait... Depending on the results, then you hire a lawyer. WHY? Because, the lawyer you'll hire is probably in the same district as the judge, and they stay clear away from giving judges problems. They never know when that judge will preside over their case and make them lose, which makes them lose money, blah blah...
Some ethics, huh?
2006-10-16 07:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is time for your son to start making better choices in the people he exposes his children to.
It looks as if it is time for someone other than the biological parents to step in and start caring for the children.
I am sorry but the truth is he knew what his current girlfriend was like and he still exposed himself and the children to her.
If I were you I would stand up for those children and try to get custody of them myself.
That means you are going to p*ss off your son, but he is a grown man that needs to learn how to be a better parent. The fact is both parents are guilty of assault is that the kind of parent these kids need?
Do me a favor try to read your question as if it were someone else's then you might be able to see your son is not that great of a father .And the mother has mental issues. These kids need your help so it is time for you to choose your son which is an adult or those poor children.
I pray for you.
**pasta326** before you correct people learn how to spell.Good luck with that**
2006-10-15 23:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by withoutaname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your son needs to file an appeal with the court and take all of his proof of her instability to the courts and file an order of protection on his and the children's behalf. Contact an attorney, even if it is one of the low income attorneys and have custody papers filed with the courts. When you go before the judge, do not make it a we don't like her hearing, make sure the judge understands that you have a genuine concern for the safety of the children and that you believe she needs help.
2006-10-15 23:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jewels 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your son will have to fight it. Basically you are the grandmother and not the parent therefore you have no rights to the kids. It is up to your son.
I am sorry that this happening to you. Your son should have known better then to put your family through this to begin with by hitting his girlfriend. Men should not hit women no matter the reason.
I wish you and your family the best of luck and hope that you will get the kids back. It sounds as if neither the mother or the father should have them.
2006-10-15 23:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think that there were judicial errors in the handling of your case, your lawyer can always appeal to an appeals court.
2006-10-16 07:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a lawyer. There are legal procedures for dealing with messes like this, but you need help to navigate the maze.
2006-10-15 23:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk to an attorney. Good luck, take care
2006-10-15 23:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I would talk to an english teacher.
2006-10-15 23:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
God ( If u believe in him).
2006-10-15 23:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋