I wanted to use her phone so I just picked it up, flipped it open and just when I started to look at it she said "What are you doing!?" I said "Using your phone for a secound, why? she said I don't want you to." Then she took it away. I got to look at her call log long enough to see that I am not saved in her phone book, it's just my number, no name. Whats up with that?
2006-10-15 16:23:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, lots of the answers you've been getting have been telling you to get over it.
I dunno, if i were in your position, i'd be wondering too.
Thing is: does she usually let you use her phone? Do you let her use your phone? If you guys only just started dating, maybe it's hard for her to understand that it's alright for a bf/gf to do things, e.g. play with a phone, without asking
If i was going out with someone, i wouldn't mind if they picked up my phone and used with it without asking. Heck, he's my BOYFRIEND.
If i've got nothing to hide, why can't he use my phone?
That is, unless he starts asking "Who's this? And who's [insert name]? What's this msg about?" THEN i would i get angry <--- THAT'S snooping.
Thing is: you DID look at her call log... so i dunno. Only you will know whether you were actually snooping or not...
From the sounds of it, it does sound like something's up: maybe ask her casually why your name isn't in her mobile...? from what you say, it sounds like you might be 'the other guy'.
Hope this helps and all the best xx
2006-10-15 16:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by mojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were just going to use the phone, you would have flipped it open and dialed a number. First of all, it's very rude to use something that belongs to another without asking if you may. Secondly, it truly sounds much more like you were being invasive and snooping. Why would you need to look at her call log in order to make a phone call? I'm sorry, but you need to be honest with yourself as well as with everyone else.
As far as why you were only in there with a number and not a name, not everyone enters names in their cell phones. I don't. I know several others who don't, too.
I think the issue, if you'll be man enough to admit it, is that you were being ungentlemanly and you got busted and are now trying to turn the tables to take the guilt off of yourself.
You owe her an apology and you owe yourself an opportunity to grow up.
As far as those who say she's cheating on you or maybe you're not her only guy, etc. Why would you listen to them when they don't know you or her? The only reason you would have for listening to them would be because you are looking for something that you can use to justify your own inappropriate actions and attitude.
You're probably a good guy. Now, try being a good man.
2006-10-15 16:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by just common sense 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who knows why you're number is not saved in her cell? It could be that she just knows it from memory and doesn't feel the need to save it in her phone. Or maybe she's hiding something. I'd say have an open, honest conversation with her. But don't approach her in a confrontational manner because that never goes well. See what she says. If you're content with her response, then cool. If not, then bounce. You'd know better than anyone whether she's right for you or not.
2006-10-15 16:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the phone then her diaries. Don't be so sensitive, if you were using the phone what in her phone log was so interesting. This is the first sign of controlling behavior and you could loose your girl nosy
2006-10-15 16:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has other guy's number or naughty messages from someone else. OR
maybe she likes someone at work and they might look through her phone and she doesnt want ur name showing.
2006-10-15 16:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say it but she cheating on u your name is not in the phone because she dont want the other guy to see it good luck
2006-10-15 16:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because it is HER phone and you used it very rudely without her prior permission and violated her privacy. Guess what would happen if you did that with my phone. Duh.
WK
2006-10-15 16:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by olin1963 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I speak from experience when I say, she is either cheating on you, or conversing with someone that she is interested in.
2006-10-15 16:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by bluebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause she dont want her other bf to know about you. now you know so be care full and watch for her cheatin' ways to manifest itself.
2006-10-15 16:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think shes cheating on u
2006-10-15 16:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sharlene 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋