I dun understand, many things he did obviously show he wasnt into me anymore and he didnt love me anymore, but verbally he still said how much he loves me and how upset he was when i joked with him i got a marriage proposal. I just dun understand what he is on his mind. I m the one got hurt in this relationship, i knew i should let it go but i just still coulda at the moment. I told him to tell me right away that he doesnt love me anymore and i will move on. he didnt, he just said he does love me but i dun understand. why? my male friend told me that guys are like that, they like to keep things useful/ not useful. is that the truth?
2006-10-15 16:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DUN know.
He wants to still be able to have a use for you.
2006-10-15 16:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I hear it everyday. People saying I love you when they're only in a relationship a week and then break up. That's not true for all guys but it has been happening at an alarming rate within Men. Personally I would only tell a girl I loved her if I knew her inside and out and we both had an emotional connection. From the looks of it I highly doubt you and your boyfriend had that kind of relationship.
2006-10-15 16:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy whose been in a situation where I loved the person, but fell out of love with them. They sort of became by best friend.
I think this person does not know what he really wants, does have feelings for you, but not the level of love you are seeking.
I think it's pretty simple... he loves u but is not "in-love" with you. I think you should move on because he is "showing you" that he is not in-love with you...He is also probably taking you for granted...
Again..I suggest you move on and find a new guy that will love you as you love them...
2006-10-15 16:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, like women people, it in basic terms relies upon on what have been in the temper for, yet adult men that are undesirable in mattress, think of they are meant to pound as quickly and confusing as they are able to. Im a romantic so lots of the time I make tough love, the place its standard love making yet with a grimy environment in touch. yet I consistently experience the girl out for what shes in the temper for.
2016-10-16 06:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's avoiding both confrontation (by not admiting the truth) & loneliness (by avoiding a break-up). But, He does not love you in the sence of the word that you are thinking. You should politely bail, & move on.
2006-10-15 16:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get into your pants get used to it they use i love you like toilet paper its good for anytjhing they want sorry u just need to learn wots reall n wots not and then if ur in a relarionship and things turn sour he says it to shut u up then hey finds anotha gurl in tells you its over but he still loves you its not u its me bull s h i t
2006-10-15 16:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by fay fay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple say love and they got the as.. If you hard to take they propose you marriage and get your ....... Everything is aloud to get ..
2006-10-15 16:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may actualy have feelings for you, more than likely he is saying this so he can continue to camp out in your pants
2006-10-15 16:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was playing wit ur feelings u shouldnt trust all males
2006-10-15 16:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sharlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are goddam liers & selfish!
2006-10-15 16:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋