I'm a divorced 41 year old and people tell me I look about 31. I'm a successful executive, own my own home, attractive woman, have a 19 year old son in college and travel to D.C. 3 days a week on business. I have had no luck meeting anyone serious online. I don't do the bar scene, I've tried church and can't seem to meet anyone. Every man I meet in business is married and they almost always hit on me; which is rather discuraging. I have no girlfriends either, the one that I did have moved out of state. Any ideas?
2006-10-15 16:17:43 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I'm a good person, loyal, understanding to a faults, and sincere. I'm intelligent, talented: I can sing very well, I cook, decorate, etc. I'm just very frustrated and lonely. I thought about joining clubs, but what I like to do are simple things, like take walks, go out to dinner and watch a good movie or have family over. Not sure what else to say.
2006-10-15 16:38:14 · update #1
No. I am around your age and I met someone a few months ago around my age with a lot of similarities and I had high hopes after meeting unexpectedly at an event and hitting it off. Long story short, he wanted a booty call at his hotel while he was still in town, which I refused. We reconnected when he got home (another state) but it's like dealing with a 39 year old with a 16 year olds brain, asking for nudie pics and stuff like that. It's not going to work, I can see that. I just feel deflated about ever meeting a guy in this age bracket who isn't totally defective or damaged in some way.
2006-10-15 16:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy does this suck, I mean I'm in the same situation accept I'm 43 but always keep in good shape. My son is 18 and in college in fact he tells me I'm not really 43 cause I act 12. I think that was a compliment though. I hate the bar scene or "Meat Market", you travel I work with elementary students and no this is not Mary Kay L...Both of my girlfriends also moved this past year. Well to bad you're across the U.S. we could hang out at Starbucks and wait & wait for the perfect man...I mean he has to like coffee right?
2006-10-15 16:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Octavia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know it's hard to find someone. I went through it myself.
What I did was look in the singles ads in the county shopper's guide specifically looking for marriage.
I placed an ad specifically stating what I was looking for. I received a little over 100 letters.
I went through and weeded out the weirdos, but I did hit "paydirt" after meeting four guys.
You have to read between the lines and screen them very well to be sure they are really single.
In January 1993 I saw an interesting ad and answered it. A year later we got married and we have been married for eleven years now.
Good luck. :)
2006-10-15 16:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the Club, we are all here. But seriously look for or any possible activity, hobby's just to be with people. In your age most men are already screw up /divorced/kids/ most of the quality is gone or taken. Just good luck. Internet personals sucks, and can be very dangers.
2006-10-15 16:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing....I feel your pain. I just divorced my husband . Do you want him? He is very successful and good looking. Busy and workaholic. Email me if your interested. :)
We didn't have anything in common.....he is a cleany weany and I am sloppy. He is master of the checkbook and I always have hot checks....his closet was color coordinated and mine looked like a demolition crew hit it. Let me know.
Keep looking....they are out there somewhere. It took my friends a few years to find a new mate.
2006-10-15 16:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy. you reside in an area the place a exceptional form of %. up artists (=considerable gamers) stay. so they're going to probable attempt stuff like 'cubing' you and 'asking you for an opinion'. Seeing as you opt to fulfill a guy for a relationship, bars and golf equipment definately not the appropriate place. greater like salsa dancing instructions of pursuits the place you are able to truly get to nicely known the guy. you're able to desire to to stay single for slightly, its a physically powerful existence in case you get used to it. a actual guy will many times take your form and make contact with you the next day - he will additionally desire in case you adult men do not hook up till the 4th or the 5th date a minimum of, and probable plenty longer based... do exactly a super number of stuff to maintain busy, new events, youll get to nicely known the guy as a chum in the past becoming to be fans. although, ask your woman and male acquaintances (esp. stable ones) in the event that they know of any eligible single adult men approximately.
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2006-10-15 22:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you keep on trying at church,or this, i am a 23 year old very handsom single man,down side is i am a cook at kfc and i make $6.90, call me
2006-10-15 16:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying he is out there...when you least expect it it will happen stop trying so hard.
2006-10-15 16:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a website like eharmony or something
2006-10-15 16:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋