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ok i like this girl at my church. I see her very rarely(like twice a month). How should i flirt? Also i told her twin bro over the phone that i liked his sis. He was kinda freaked out(just a little bit). I told him not to tell her. So when should I tell her I like her, because I didn't want to tell her over the phone. And I didn't wan't him to spill the beans. So the questions are how do i flirt? when and how should i tell her i like her? My parents don't let me date till im 18. I am 13, she is 12 and her parents have been divorced for about 4 years. Remember 10 points i have seen her for about two years

2006-10-15 16:15:09 · 8 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

oh whoopie, 10 points, like they are something special and unique to you.

2006-10-15 16:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Start off by going out in a group with her and some friends. Just act natural and be friendly. Over time, just start giving her a little more attention than you give the rest of the guys and eventually start asking to hangout with her with fewer and fewer people in tow. When it gets to be just the two of you, it will be easier to tell if she likes you like that. If it seems like she does but still hasn't asked you out at that point, then go for it!

Do something crazy romantic cute, but not embarrassing. As friends, a big thing for me and my group of "peeps" is knowing each others school locker combos and computer account passwords. Since we trust each other, this is something we naturally do. If you attend the same school, find out her locker combo and be late to one class period so you can tape it to the inside of the locker door. Then, after class, when she visits her locker, go with her so that you will be right there when she opens it. When she sees the roses and most likely smiles, ask her to go out with you. Don't make a big scene and make sure none of yall's friends are right there.
If you attend different schools, ask her to go to a movie to hang out and watch. Sit in the back where no one else will hear or see. As the credits roll at the end and the lights are still fairly low while everyone leaves, turn to her and tell her that there is something you've been meaning to ask her. Don't be to serious or it will scare her. Then just ask her if she'll go out with you.

This idea can take a while, but if you're serious about asking her out, time should be no issue. Hope I've helped!

2006-10-16 00:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shel K 3 · 1 0

dont flirt --- just talk to her at the church and ladies (even as young as 12 will know you like her)

Im sorry i do agree with your parents to a degree you are both too young to date --- so why not just get to know each other and who knows in a few years you may still want to be with each other and maybe not

and as an aside --- i dont care about the points :)

2006-10-15 23:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1 0

Just be her Friend. A relationship is built on friendship. And then when your 18 you can date her. And also if you make it known that you really like her your parents might make it to ware you can't go to their house all the time!!!

2006-10-15 23:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You just gotta tell her.I bet the twin brother already did and told her not to let you know he told her.Just spill the beans.

2006-10-15 23:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 1 0

Just be friendly. Don't push it. Find an occassion when the two of you can be in a group and hang with her. Eventually, she'll seek you out.

2006-10-15 23:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1 0

ok look u should tell her in person! and u should tell her soon! cause if it was me i would want u to just come out and tell me and not bobble it all up because it makes things acward! so go ahead and tell her u like her and maybe she will like you back! u never know til u try! ok?

2006-10-15 23:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by makos_swimmer 1 · 1 0

Hmmmm at your age maybe the next time you see her slip her a note.

2006-10-15 23:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by snatchel 1 · 1 0

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