there's this guy friend at school I have.... and u guys convinced me he likes me more than a friend..... i like him more than a friend 2. how should i tell him...... ohyeah, my mom says i can't date 'till i'm 16, i'm not old enough 4 a while, and plz no one saying listen 2 ur mom
2006-10-15 16:14:42 · 21 answers · asked by kellycfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well your mom is power so i would say talk to her about the situation most of the time its an issue of trust.... try to negociate by saying ill make him meet you and then you may approve.. stuff like that you know... you got to give and take...
how to tell the guy...
i think he should tell you and you should just tip him off you like him... how you do that well idk im not a girl but make it obvious without telling him... but if you must just tell him straight up or a note... guys that are into you dont really care how you tell them as long as you do :P
2006-10-15 16:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by masterdj2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, from answering your previous question about whether he likes you or not: you said he broke up with someone for 'fun'. And he's not even 16 yet... i'm assuming?
There's no point in defying your mum for a guy like that. Just go on group dates, or talk on the phone/msg him until you're 16. Believe me, there's no rush...
I guess tell him the truth: you really like him... and see how he responds. If he likes you back, that's great! But tell him that you can't date til you're 16... if he goes "OH EM GEE. NOT COOL." and thinks that's lame, well move on. If a guy like that can't wait around for you, he's obviously not worth your time or effort.
peace out xx
2006-10-16 00:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live at home so you gonna defy your mom? You have to be patient. If you get pregnant your mom is going to have to help you take care of a child that you or your mom dosent need right now. Dont be stubborn I know your heart wants this guy but you have to sensible about the whole thing. H is probably scared to go with you because you are too young forhim even tho he likes you. sometimes you cant have everything your heart desires. I like coffee a lot but it makes me dizzy when i drink it.
2006-10-15 23:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I won't say listen to your mom... I'm going to say, "I agree with your mom."
The only way you could do it is group activities... You could get in serious trouble at your age... Your parents are looking out for your best interest...
You MIGHT ask your mom if you could have some friends over to play board games or something... a "mini" party with some of your girl friends, some of the guys and of course one SPECIAL guy...
You're not dating, you're getting to know him better in a safe atmosphere.
2006-10-15 23:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spend as much time with him as you can, lunch, befor and after school....and soon he will know how you feel...then see if you can meet him somewhere that you would normally go, so mom doesnt know its a date...then just hook up with him there..tell him the truth, and that way he will help you with the meeting...then date him when you old enough....
2006-10-16 00:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you like him, and even though you can't date anyone yet, you want to spend more time with him. Just because you tell him your feelings doesn't mean you have to date him. It just means that you want him to know, and that's a big enough step in itself.
2006-10-15 23:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok
Do you realize he wants to have sex with you witch is illeagal till you are 18.
Not to mention if you happend to get pregnent, That will permanatly change your life, and not for the good unless you have ton of $.
2006-10-15 23:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do as you will, but if you're going to go out with him, just keep your interactions public until he's earned enough trust for you to be willing to confront your mother about him.
May I tell you to listen to your mum instead?
2006-10-15 23:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, go talk to him, ask him straight out. What's the worst he'll say? NO! OH, well you were just wondering, yes i know you like him a little more than you like him, so tell him, be brave, and yes you can do it. just set your mind to it.
2006-10-15 23:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jayden, you can talk and hang out but no one on one dating till your parents say so.
My daughter's name is Jaden and she is 15
2006-10-15 23:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋