She sometimes tells storys from previous relationchips and that makes me uncomfortable. like today i foundout she had sex in a gas station batroom in Texas.. She is my first relationship maby im jellows because shes had more sexual encaunters than me..
I cant picture her having sex with other people because thats something intimate i share with her, and to know that shes done that with someone else makes me feel not so special anymore..
How can she shair a intimate moment with some one inthe passt and now do the same with me..
I guess it makes it not so special to have sex with her..
am i just a macho man that wants to be the firts and only one??
thats what my instints tell me..
help
2006-10-15 16:08:59 · 22 answers · asked by unknownguy005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not at all......u shouldn't........u tell ur girlfriend that u alos had sex with so many ppl b4 her.....she wont ind...trust me....
2006-10-15 16:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha, good luck with that!
She's no longer a virgin, so either get over her past and never talk about it, or break up with her and let some other guys poke her, she has guys standing in line waiting for you to either "Hit it" or quit it. Make a choice,
If you were so (Macho) you would shut up and hit it, the truth is your afraid of her knowing more than you or her not being happy with you size, you way of doing it, you better go rent some movies and learn what to do first, sounds like your not so macho.
Here's a tip, rent a movie about lesbians doing each other, then you will have game. Pay attention to what I said, I just gave you the key to win her over.
2006-10-15 16:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie. I understand how you feel. It is an awful feeling to think about when you care for someone so deeply. It is childish and immature on her part to talk about the past the way she is. If you asked, that would be one thing, but for her to just blatantly bring it up is just her insecurity with herself. you are a special person to her because she is with you now. When you start to think about those things she did, push it to the side and tell yourself that she is with you for a reason. There is nothing wrong with being not as experienced as her. If you truly care for this girl, it wouldn't hurt to just explain to her that it hurts your feelings when she talks like that. If she is like any of the girls I know, she will respect the fact that you shared your feelings with her and if she does nothing but make fun of you or continue to share her stories, she might not be the one for you.
2006-10-15 16:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by rockinlover2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, your girlfriend done sex with others before you came into her life. If you have been ahead of those boys you may have done it first. Past is past, what have been done could be undone anymore. Just make the most of your relationship as long as you both focus with each other. In ur side o more other girls and her side no more other guy. Make a compromise.
2006-10-15 16:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.... you got some serious issues lol you need to forget about her past, and get over this virginal bullshit. Do you know how crazy you sound?
Now, you do have a point about her talking about past encounters.... she shouldn't be doing that. That stuff should stay in the past where it belongs. Obviously, it makes you uncomfortable, it's disrespectful to you and the relationship you have now to be bringing up crazy things she did in the past.
But yes, we all have a past, a few skeletons in our closet. Remind her that she should keep it that way.
2006-10-15 16:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are in a relationship and only having sex with each other, that's cool. She doesn't need to tell you about her past experiences. Tell her that. What she did is her business and if you don't want to know that's up to you.
I guess jealousy could be a part of it but I don't want to know details of my wife's previous sexual relationships.
She also does not want details of my previous antics. It's called respect.
2006-10-15 16:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by The Garage Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, that's then, this is now, big deal. Dude, it's just stories that happened in the past, what do you look forward to in the near future with her? Being with her right? Okay, then big deal, so try talking to her about your previous relationships and see what kind of reaction you get. OR, just talk to her about how it makes you feel.
2006-10-15 16:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel mad/jelous because you thought she was a sweet heart, but then you find out she fu*ked in a gas station bathroom, you might consider her a whore for doing this and its normal to do so. If you keep thinking that way though your not gona trust her and ruin the whole relationship.
2006-10-15 16:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to hold on to this relationship then you've got to let go of her past. Whatever (or whoever) she did before meeting you is ancient history, what matters is what you have now. If her talking to you about her past encounters makes you uncomfortable you certainly have the right to ask her to drop that particular subject, but it may backfire on you.
2006-10-15 16:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you still virgin ? If you are not, then you are a very self fish guy. Beside she just your Gf, are you sure you are going to marry with her after you having sex with her .. Pls lar.. world is fair. doesn't mean guy can have many sex partner but girl cannot.. If you cannot take it, just separate lor.. easy and simper
2006-10-15 16:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by edward g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way you'll be dating girls who are only 14, 15 and 16 - to be the first one.
and some day when you date the next girl she wont be your first one. Now how will she feel.
we all have to learn from someone
2006-10-15 16:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋