do you have to be perfect to get guys? all these songs about it....
are you only worth something if your body is perfect?
2006-10-15 16:08:45 · 16 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every man has a different "perfect girl" so one girl can seem hidiously ugly and rude and mean to one man and a goddess to another... Thats why love sometimes sucks cause its hard to find someone like that but to answer your qestion plenty of of not "hot" people (according to the norm) have boyfriends...
2006-10-15 16:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by masterdj2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are only worth what YOU believe you are worth. Dont let songs and society's superficial beliefs tear you down. Being 'perfect' or having 'perfect' bodies didnt get girls bf's. It was their attitude about themselves that did. And TRUST ME. I know what it's like being one of the ppl that dont have that 'perfect' figure and yes, it is discouraging when people treat you differently. BUT the people that do, arent worth your time anyway. You need to take a look at yourself, and think, what makes me a good person? What makes me 'perfect'? everyone is perfect in their own lil way and realizing just what makes you perfect, will give you that confidence you need to carry yourself well. and carrying yourself well and with confidence, is one of the main things that will get other ppl to like you...
2006-10-15 23:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nic : 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not hot at all, or beautiful in the least. But I have a super-cute and sexy bf that I love to bits.
To tell you the truth, I've never had trouble meeting guys, getting along with them or getting dates, and I've never been single for longer than a couple of months. And when I go out, I get quite a few admiring looks from guys as well.
I dunno why, but you definitely don't need to be a 10 to get guys' attention. I think in some ways many men prefer a non-threatening approachable girl like me to a gorgeous supermodel that makes them feel insecure.
2006-10-16 00:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely NOT hot.
I act like a guy and no jokes - i wear guys clothes. Hoodies, baggy pants, guy's deo - the whole shebang. But i've still had guys after me, and i've had boyfriends. My bod's not hot - i've got the height, but i'm seriously flat as... XD
But seriously - some guys may think only 'hot' girls are worthy... but obviously these guys aren't worth any girl's time or effort. It's the personality that matters most. So don't worry about 'looks' and think about your inner beauty
Rock on xx
2006-10-16 00:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you do not have to look like a model to get a boyfriend.
I'm no where near the 'perfect' size, I don't have beautiful blonde hair to my butt, and my boobs aren't perky--though I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for two years.
When you learn to get to know yourself and appreciate yourself inside and out, you never know what could happen next!
2006-10-15 23:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look around, plenty of people are with each other because they love each other not because they are both ridiculously good looking. Plenty of good looking people are with people that might be considered... not so much because they love them. It really is a lot about personality. Be happy, energetic, and a little gutsy and you will get the kind of guys that you want: nice ones, not ones who like you because of your looks.
Plus, relationships based on looks are destined to fail.
2006-10-15 23:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by truthsetsmefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg ,girl you must not get out much .its almost scary how much the less than perfect get to play.sometimes when I see them out I. think that someone is using a spell on someone else .sends shivers down the spine how somemannage to pair up.guess there is hope for everyone
2006-10-16 00:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by c20_6929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not hot and I got a guy. It comes down to.... when he likes you or loves you, you are the most beautiful woman in the world!
2006-10-15 23:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by fayra_elm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just the public "hype".
Yes, normal people have boyfriends. To be honest I think us, normal people, have better relationships than the "hot" people because beauty is on the outside...a person's true identity lies within.
2006-10-15 23:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by luckyko86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a few boyfriends, and i'm no where near being perfect. i'm not pretty, or "hot" or skinny anything, then again i'm not really fat, but apparently the guyz just like me for me. i don't try to impress them, i just be myself, i mean yeah i try 'n look good i wear make-up 'n all. but a lotta times guyz tell me i don't need it. just be yourself and eventually guyz will come to their senses and realize what a great girl you are.
2006-10-15 23:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋