I know she isnt my mother, but she's like one, and she's been joining this married couple for sex, it kind of bothers me, what do I do?
I know for sure, cause I overheard her on the phone with them, talking about it, she was even whispering so I wouldn't hear, but I did.
Do I ignore this, and let it go, cause I already know if I ask her, she'll lie and say something else to make her look good.
thanks for taking the time to read this, and answering me.
2006-10-15 15:59:07 · 9 answers · asked by Armblast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It`s none of your concer if your aunt has sex with 1 person or a million.None of your concern if she has sex with male or females.Love her like you always have.Dont worry about what she does behind closed doors.
2006-10-15 16:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others who answered and if I were your age it would bother me too.....I must admit...but it's nothing you should be worried about...since she is an adult and has a mind of her own if she gets her kicks this way then she is not the first or last. Some people want more excitement in their lives..while others are satisfied with what we call normal habits husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend behind closed doors....we can't judge others..it's best if we turn our heads and take care of our own business. You accidentally heard her...but from now on...don't strain your ears to hear her conversations and stay busy doing your own thing...I'm not being a judge or jury...just passing on my opinion.
2006-10-15 16:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to let the people you love make mistakes so they can learn from them. Hopefully, she'll realize that she is engaging in behavior that is not appropriate and nothing good will ever come out of it. Unfortunately, you are not in a position to question her. Please try to learn from her mistake though. If something you are doing doesn;t seem right in the pit of your stomach (like you have whisper it on the phone so no one will hear you), then it probably isn't.
2006-10-15 17:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt is an adult and what she does with her sex life is none of your business!! You shouldn't be listening on phone calls because that is very rude.
If you confront her, not only might you embarrass her, you'll get yourself into trouble and SHE may tell you that it isn't any of your business what she does!
You need to find other things to do. Your homework, clean your room, do your chores, etc. Go to bed?!
2006-10-15 16:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ignore it and let it go. This kind of behavior is "sick" and I do mean sick.
You must talk to her and be open, telling her how much you value her and how this thing is tearing you up.
2006-10-19 11:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her wish to have sex with some body. Why you are worried?
2006-10-15 16:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a adult, and that is her love life.
2006-10-15 16:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing --- its her life and her choices
if she enjoys what she is doing i say so what???
2006-10-15 16:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It bothers you"
Leave it at that.
Her sexual life is not your concern.
2006-10-15 19:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by nalaredneb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋