ive never kissed a girl b4, so i dont really kno what im doing, and me and my g/f have ben going out for about 2 weeks now and i tried kissing her, but i think i caught her offgaurd b/c she didnt kiss me back, but she didnt say anything about it, she didnt even acknowlege it. is this wierd? i dont have ne expeirience and i dont think you can really practice this. what should i do?
2006-10-15 15:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was most likeyly caught off guard. If you want to, keep it to yourself, these kinds of things, are just supposed to happen. Its all in the moment. So give her some time, when she is ready, and you really are ready, it will happen. To take things to fast or you might lose her, let her and u take the first move, otherwise it could get awkward. PLus, if your not 17 and older, follow that, if you are 17 and older, you two have to talk about it, and work out the issues and see how she feels about it, and were the two of you stand in that kind of a relationship.
2006-10-15 16:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you probably just caught her off-gaurd. Realize, she is probably just as unsure of what to do as you are. Try to imagine how you would react if she surprised you with a kiss. Just give her some time, a few days is reasonable, and if she doesn't bring it up, ask her about it straight out. There is also a possibility that you are moving faster than she is comfortable with.
Unfortunately, you are exactly right. There is no way to practice these things, you must learn by doing and thru painful trial and error.
Good luck!
2006-10-15 22:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the problem is if she is ready to kiss, not the execution of the kiss. As long as you don't knock teeth or try to swallow her face, you should be fine for your first kiss. I am not sure how old you are. If you are just kids, give her some time, she may not be ready for it, or she may not be sure how she feels about you. If your next attempt does not go well, talk to her about it and see what she says.
2006-10-15 22:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe shes not ready. You should start kissing when u feel comfortable. If you want to kiss her then try. But see if shes ready too. And 2 weeks isn't enough time. At least that what I think.
2006-10-15 22:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are the guy and you may feel embarassed about the whole situation but it happens and you are not the only one
Sometimes you might have to get out of your shell and be real instead of trying to appear like you know what you are doing
She might also be shy and might not know how to Kiss either
Best of Luck!!!!!
2006-10-15 22:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ! when it comes to a kiss youre asking the wrong people, the person you should talk to is your girlfriend , tell her what you told us and i promise you she wont laugh, shes probably in the same situation as you are and together you can both practice till you get it right, besides youll get points just for being honest with her and if she teaches you then you know youre doin it right.
2006-10-15 23:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by frosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect.
2006-10-15 22:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be nervous or un-sure what to do alls I can say is keep kissing her maybe she'll kiss you back if not talk to her about it let her know it bugs ya!
2006-10-15 22:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all never catch her off guard again
and if you do then go in very slowly
and second of all
try practicing on a pillow or watching movies with allot of kissing in it to get
the idea of how its supposed to go down.
2006-10-15 22:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by baby blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let your g/f take some time to regester the fact that you kissed her. She'll eventually return the favor, and thats were you can practice! lol.
2006-10-15 22:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋